I deeply love him and can't take this anymore. We're friends, were fwb's too. Our situation got complicated, but I feel either I break it off now or if I'll do it later, my feelings will keep rising. I never talked to him of my feelings and I'm not clear of his. But I assume he was just playing around and maybe just didn't wanna hurt me because of not asking me out. My friend told me to finish it with him, because once he did this jerkish thing, that distanced me even more from him, but he did everything for us to keep a friendship, he told me he likes me and all his friends knew it. I try to break our contact off by not calling him and have deleted his number, but when he calls me, I give up and talk like nothing happened. It's driving me crazy, because I've never had such deep feelings for anyone in my life. How to give him hints to make him stop contacting me without doing it directly?
You sound EXACTLY like I did with my (now) ex boyfriend. We were just hooking up for about 6 months, but I was in love with him. I could not stay mad at him and I could not bring myself to move on even though I knew he was hooking up with other girls.
He finally asked me to be his girlfriend and I had never been happier. I thought he finally was ready to be with me.but it did not last. He broke my heart worse than ever, and I should have seen it coming. In order for you to get completely over him, you have to tell him that you don't want to talk to him anymore. Once I completely stopped talking to my ex, it was so much easier to move on and I am finally happy again.
Tell him it's for yourself and your own happiness because you can not continue the relationship that you have like it is. I know telling him directly seems kind of rude, but it's the only way to do it. Otherwise you will never get over him. Trust me.
Good advice. Be honest it's not rude, it's being respectful.
If you don't mind me asking did you hook up with other people during those first 6 months also? why or why not? - 5 months ago
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No well just sometimes in parties, but nothing like dating or fwb. But I shouldn't feel its wrong since were not going out. I assume he should be meeting others too. Even he said himself he's not. And once I ran out of his house, when thought that's it, I'm done with him and the shit that nothing is in progress, but he chased me all the way like a kid in fear to lose something important, that's how he sounded, said not to do this again to him, that it pissed him off and then he became so affectionate - 5 months ago
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 5 months ago
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