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Why am I so uncomfortable?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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I've been talking to this guy for a while now and he's pretty much like my best friend. We've been dating about a month now and everything is great. He's a dream come true. The problem is that I love to be with him but only when other people are around. He's so affectionate that it actually gets annoying! He loves to kiss and make out and that's just not me! What do I do? Is there something wrong with me, why don't I like to kiss?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
Try this. Next time your making out put your tongue in his ear, right in the ear canal (that may be a bit gross but get over it), then gently suck his ear lobes. Make his ears wet and then blow gently. He will melt. Have him do the same to you (don't ask him, just turn your head while your kissing). If you don't love it then you probably need a different boyfriend. If that is too gross for you to try, blow on the back of his neck. Then lift your hair for him to do the same to you. This should give you goose bumps. If you don't trust him to honor your boundaries (if you don't trust him to be alone with you), then don't try those things, instead get a new boyfriend.
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Zillidan (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
Tell him you feel uncomfortable, and it's normal to feel around others when your boyfriend wants to kiss you. Me being a guy I would feel weird kissing a girl in front of my friends.
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Maybe you can show him your other ways of loving. ;o)
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Hot-Alpha-Female (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
Hey girl,
Ok so what do you mean you only like him when other people are around? Because he doesn't kiss you when other people are around? If that is the case and you don't want to kiss him, sorry girl but it kind of means that you aren't attracted to him. Plain and simple.

Because is you were attracted to him, then you would want to be affectionate with him and want to kiss him and whatever. That may be his fault because he hasn't been able to create that attraction with you.

Whatever it is, I don't think that there is anything wrong with you. I think you just need to find a guy who you have the hots for lol

Hope this helps

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