What if you can't help being shy. will a guy still like you for who you are even if you're too shy? Do you have to become more open for a certain guy to like you or he will he still like the real you? Can someone help, please!
I love shy girls. The big question comes in asking if I like them because they're shy. No. I give every girl their fair chance, and base my feelings for them on what I find. I've liked shy and erm... not so shy, girls.
Most guys really like shyness in girls. Don't be afraid to "say the wrong things" and be a bit of a dork once in a while though. Each time you make an effort to be more sociable you'll learn a thing or two and soon realize that nobody else knows much more than you. Allow yourself to make mistakes. Personally, I'd say don't get too hung up on one guy though unless you're ready for a little heart ache. Mutuality (chemistry) is sometimes difficult to find and hard to predict. While you're young, try to date some guys just for fun instead of romance. Ask your friends who they think would make a "fun" date for you and give him a shot as well. Experiment with flirting with him some if you like. Mention a movie you'd like to see or ask for their I'm handle, or maybe just make a point of saying "hi" when you see them look your direction. Date five or six guys before you step up your game. Eventually guys will be asking you out all of the time (they probably won't even think of you as shy).
iloveyou
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Most guys are usually more attracted to outgoing girls because they're easier to talk to. Shy girls tend to come off more mysterious and sometimes even intimidating. [I'm a shy girl so I know this, haha.]
But if a guy truly likes a girl he won't care if she's shy. He'll probably think it's cute and think that getting to know her will be more rewarding... and he'll definitely feel special if he can get her to open up to him.
Some guys do like shy girls but they hope that she would open up to them...it makes them feel like they really mean something to the shy girl for her to open up to them...so try little by little to open yourself up and just go for it! Take a risk! =] it'll make your life a lil' more exciting. Plus, life is all about taking chances. =]
I'm very shy and I have had a lot of boyfriends they normally tell me the reason they liked me was because I did not put myself out there like a little hoe + they liked how no one really had much about so they did not have to hear any gossip when we were dating!
I think a guy will still like you if you are shy. But eventually you will have to be less shy and open a little bit more so he will get to know you more.
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