I guess this has been going on for more than five months now. I don't get it and I'm hoping somebody here might be able to help. I talked to a guy through myspace in the month of January. Back in February, I told a guy I liked him over myspace. He said I could call him or whatever. But I'm a shy person. I gave him my number and he called it. He couldn't stay on but for a minute and he said he would call back later. He didn't. I didn't here from him for a week. I saw him at school and saw him flirting with other girls. So I asked him if he didn't like me, why did he call? He said he did like me but he didn't know how to ask me and plus he is enemies with my friend. The relationship died down and in March he asked another girl out whom I had heard he liked. By that time I wasn't even his friend on myspace. So the month of April came by and he asked my cousin to ask me to read him. I asked my cousin why does he want to be my friend on myspace now. My cousin didn't know. So I re-added him. Now skipping to the month of May, he has attempted to talk to me more and flirt. Now it's June and two weeks ago he told me he liked me and that he wanted to go out with me by text. But I'm the one who always started the texts. If I don't text him, I hear nothing from him at all. I asked him if he was serious when he had asked me out and he said yes, but after that I still do not hear anything from him. Nothing. So I told him I think we should just be friends. I mean it's the summer time and we don't get to see each other. Neither one of us drives and he can't even start a conversation with me making me feel stupid and like it was all a joke. He then sent text messages claiming that he wanted me and only me and to give him one more chance, but this is the third/fourth time. Common sense would have been for him to pick up the phone and call me right? I mean texts are so limited you can't tell everything you feel in it. He had also said that he didn't know. When I questioned that he started begging. He didn't know what? That he asked me out? Makes me wonder if anybody else had his phone. Guess what? Two days later he was all hugged up with a girl he claimed as a friend. Now he doesn't answer my texts or myspace messages. What is up with him? Can somebody please help me understand this boy?
Update: Yeah, I should move on. I had actually in April, but I thought he was actually trying this time. I guess not, though.
5 months ago
Update: Yeah, I should move on. I had actually in April, but I thought he was actually trying this time. I guess not, though.
5 months ago
Update: Yeah, I should move on. I had actually in April, but I thought he was actually trying this time. I guess not, though.
5 months ago
Does ANYONE in your group communicate in person? All of this "adding and deleting" of myspace friends and professions of love in texting has gotten WAAAYYYY out of hand. I'm surprised that you haven't given up on him yet.
First off. This is only flirting. you are overreacting when he gets flirty with someone else; get used to it, he's a guy and has the attention span of a tube of toothpaste. There is such a thing as reading too much into your men. Keep in mind that MOST men, myself included and TheSunGod (when he gets around to answering), are incredibly shallow. There is no substitute for being straightforward when talking to us. we are bricks.
Secondly. When do you see him in person? You just need to talk to him about the situation, and I don't mean on Myspace or through Texting. Either see him in person and get some answers, or call him and hope that he responds. You have a right to hear from him what is going on.
Thirdly. You have been waiting for this guy for several months, did you ever think that you might be part of the problem? Before you get defensive, hear me out "common sense" says that he should have called you. well why can't you call him? If you ever get into a relationship with this guy, it will take work, like all relationships, and you can't be afraid of him. Don't play so mysterious or hard to get that he doesn't feel it is worth the while. Be direct, and be bold. You can still win him over.
If you were any older, I would be worried for you. but seeing as you are still fairly young, I'll let this go. Don't think that all HS relationships are like this, they will get better. Seriously though, Myspace is only so much of a big deal. You have let this guy blow things out of proportion, and has played you. Do what you want with him, but keep in mind, that involves you doing something. You can't sit forever.
I don't know, but from the sound of it he wants you as a fall back girl and wants to have someone else as his main, and sounds like he's just pulling your chain and leading you very cruelly, maybe its just me but he sounds like a jerk.
Step 1: Move on from this situation. This fella is a ridiculous waste of time, and in not too long a time, you will look back and say, "why the hell did I mess with him?"
Step 2: If you have a tangible question, go ahead and ask it. Just try to keep the incoherent ranting to a minimum.
Now, now... Come on TSG... Let the kids have their fun... and... You aren't an Admin, so it really isn't right for you to throw that last little line in there...
I agree with Step 1 tho. - 5 months ago
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OH please. You know how sarcastic I am. Just let me send your so called "kids" a message. They need it! - 5 months ago
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