We're friends with benefits. He tells me I'm hot and very pretty all the time and talks about me to his friends. He has told me earlier he likes me, but he's not asking me out, I guess because I acted like it was all I wanted just physical love. But he wants to have a kid with me and as he said a little family. He works a lot and has his own business, I guess he'd get serious if that happened. What does that reveal about him? I mean I took it for joke, because I'm not ready for this. He's in his mid 20's. Should I run away from this guy?
Maybe he has developed feelings for you. Having kids is a really big decision though, how do you feel about this? Do you have feelings for him too? Do you even want to have kids right now? If he isn't even going to ask you out, why would you want to start a family with him? Before you tackle the question of having children, I think you two should sort out if you are going to be an actual couple or not. How long have you been together? Some guys just want a woman's uterus, so they can have kids, not the woman herself. Be careful how you approach this matter. Personally, I would rather have kids with someone I really love who will be around to help me raise them. If I were in your situation, I would probably ask him more deeply about this and about how he really feels about me. I would also take some time to examine my own emotions and decide if I had feelings for him or not and how deep they were. Starting a family in this situation just doesn't seem like a very good idea though, so hold off until you are sure you aren't doing something you'll regret a lot later on.
We're friends with benefits. I have feelings for him but I never show them and he doesn't show me that either, we know each other for almost 1 year and we spent maybe 15 times during that time in his house. He said he wants to meet my family and he gets mad because I refuse, since we're not going out. I want to go out with him, but I don't know how to tell him. We've gone through an awkward situation though. I keep thinking maybe it was just a joke, even he didn't say that in a playful way. - 5 months ago
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And no, I don't want kids now. He has told me long before when we were in bed, "will you tell your grandkids about such (arthur) being the first guy who took ur virginity?'' that hurt because I already had developed feelings for him and I know we will stop all this one day, but why make it clear and talk of it now? he's really strange and weird and shy guy. by his actions it would seem that he would never wanna let me go. - 5 months ago
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When: 5 months ago
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