everyone feels down every once and I while and I've been there to but, its been over 3 months now. I feel like crap every day I wake up till I go to sleep, I go out with friends when they arent busy, it just doesn't seem to effect the outcome of my day.
There is no major excitement in my life, I just go to work and go home for now and save the money I make, or go do something with friends. I have never had a relationship last more than 3 weeks ( mostly because they go back there ex's or some other bullcrap) so I've began to loose hope on finding a nice cool girl to be with.
im tired of always being like this all day, I don't really know what to do. Especially when my friends are busy and I'm stuck by myself, it doesn't really help doing anything with them, it just gives me something to do till I go to bed, and I hide my feelings really well from them because I don't feel comfortable letting one know what I'm actually feeling like.
im not trying to grab attention or anything, I just do not want to have this conversation with a friend or family
I am not really expecting anyone to really be able to help with this but there's no way I'm gonna say this in front of a friend
Hey. maybe you could find something to do that really interests you. It helps me to get back up and motivated, when I can pursue my goals and purposes in life. What are your dreams? Where do you want to be in a few years? Find something to do that your passionate about. You will find yourself feeling a whole lot better. Oh, you can try doing something special for someone as well, believe me, it works :). God bless.
I can sympathize with you. My friends and family are alright to hang out with, but I don't tell them any really serious stuff about me for various reasons.
It sounds like you're in a rut. I'm in a rut too, so I don't know how much advice I could give you. What I have noticed is that things will seem to go really slow for a long time and then suddenly something will change and everything else will fall into place.
I guess making a change in your life might trigger that. It sounds like you have more time to yourself, so maybe try doing something you've been meaning to do or discover something new. Meet some new people or even not-so new people (like contact an old friend you've lost touch with).
Rut's are annoying to say the least and they seem to go on forever, but I suppose there's always a silver lining.
You should really talk to someone, and try to talk to your friends, I find myself sometimes like you described yourself, and I just get through it, this normally happens with school, and now that it is summer I'm just doing whatever I want!
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 5 months ago
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