I never really understood what guys are thinking when they see me. I've never been asked out to spend any time with them or interested in dating. I thought at first it was because I was really shy. I never considered myself an ugly person just not putting myself out as much.
Though I do have some guy friends but they just never really stick around. Like I had guy friend that just dropped me as a friend because he wanted to join the popular crowd. So he just said that I wasn't cool enough to hang anymore and left. I was a little down but I later found out that I wasn't the only one he dropped as a friend.
Another guy friend that I started to have some feelings for him and he later found out. So he asked me if I wanted to do friends with benefits with him. I told him that I could never put myself out like that. He then told me that we can't be friends anymore and he stopped talking to me. I was really hurt by that but I know that he wasn't a good person.
Now I'm stuck and I don't know exactly why guys just aren't really interested in spending time with me like dating. Or just being plain old friends it just never really works out. I would like to have a boyfriend or even just friends that are guys. I'm starting to really worry because there maybe something wrong with me. I only have two years of high school left (16 turning 17) and still having issues with guys.
It is by far not your fault many men are just idiots.Sometimes shyness can come off as cold and uncaring. I prefer shy girls so I can't see that as the problem.Maybe you are just looking in the wrong direction, or maybe its your state guys in Ohio are mostly sex fiends.So I don't make much of an impression being over crowned with immature horn dogs.Just be your self and I'm sure some one won't be blind.And see you for who you are.
I don't think you have problems with guys. I think it's just that you did not met the good ones =)
I personally prefer shy girls so I really don't think you're at fault (plus you said you don't consider yourself as an ugly person which should mean that you're not cause people tend to have a pessimistic view on themselves ^^)
I am a 22 years old man we probably could be friends if you wanted to. (though I suppose being friend with a French guy is not the kind of relation you would want lol).
Don't give up, I am sure someone will notice you for what you really are.
Sounds like every guy you want to be around is a jerk! Try opening your circle a bit so you can get a REAL guy who wants to hang with you or date you. You are young and are far from death. There is plenty of time to work this stuff out. Also, congrats to you for not falling prey to the benefits thing. You stood up for your principles and that is to be commended! There are women in their 50s who fall prey to the same old game played on women the world over.
STILL! Your always going to have issues with men. Every woman does - They are a pain in the ass ;) lol, but I wouldn't worry about it too much. When you are in school, a lot of blokes are just into one thing and go from one girlfriend to another. I wouldn't be down about it and please don't be! I'm not blowing my own trumpet here, but I'm a good looking girl,popular in school,played sports but I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 18 and I'm glad I was like that because I never gave into peer pressure and always did my own thing. If anyone slagged me about not having a boyfriend bla bla bla, Id take the "so what approach" who cares! Ur 16 NEARLY 17 ;) Enjoy life, study, play sports join classes, go to discos but enjoy it because there is PLENTY of time for guys!
I had the exact same "problem" as you. only now I don't think its a problem, the guys in high school are so immature compared to when ur out. I had a guy I like only ask me for sex and you won't believe how happy I am now for turning him down. I've never had a boyfriend or close guy friends through highschool. I'm 20 (age thing is wrong) and I just started dating the most wonderful guy ever. maybe you have better standards for yourself then you think, I'm sure you are very pretty and believe me you'll find someone, better one awesome person then a bunch of little boys right. and now I'm friends with his guy friends so its a win win situation lol. good luck :)
Every girl has issues with guys, they just might not be the same as yours. You should probably stop worrying about boys. For now you should stick with your girlfriends. You'll eventually find a guy that is worthy of you if you just have fun.
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