he wants me to go to his house to shower with him but he says it doesn't have to be anything sexual, he doesn't want to be my first. so what is he playing at? this isn't the first time he has tried to get me to his house either.
Update: I guess I should clarify, I have no intention of going to his house anytime soon, especially not to shower or have sex with him. I haven't dated much and he thinks I should "jump in with both feet," but we've talked a lot and he knows where I stand.
5 months ago
Some guys just want your company and sex in the normal sense isn't essential or a big rush. He could be figuring that if he can get you on his turf often enough, it will eventually happen. But the shower thing makes me wonder if there's either some kind of fetish.or.these days cameras are more easily hidden than ever before. Your naked self could end up on the web half way around the world. That's one possibility that comes to mind.
Of course he's trying to have sex with you. I'm not going to say you're dumb or anything, cause it can be a tricky situation, plus you're smart enough to not go, buttttt he's definitely trying to take advantage. And saying he doesn't want anything sexual is just his way of trying to make you feel more comfortable about going. Don't shower with this douche.
He's trying to have sex with by taking you to the shower. Doesn't that give you enough clue? If a guy asks you to go the movies, it means to watch a movie, right? I know what type of guy he is. You're probably young and nave girl and he clearly see that. Also he sees this as a tool to use you. He will take you to the shower, start touching you in the private areas and bam you'll give in! It's not easy to hold yourself. Now the thing is if you want it. I'd suggest that you're both dating for such step. I tell you as from my experience losing my virginity to a guy whom I was friends with but I liked him a lot was a biggest mistake. I was depressed over a long time, because he left me on the ice and began treating me like a crap. Hell no, no one will do that to me! Be smart and have sex when you truly trust the person and you're not afraid of losing him.
First off, as far as young a goes-i'm older than you second, I never said I agreed to it. a long time ago I decided to wait to have sex until I get married and that is one decision I will NEVER change, if a guy can't respect that decision then he doesn't respect me and I won't have him - 5 months ago
Hey hey, 'Rocking' was just trying give some advice.. and assumed by your question that you were too young to put two-and-two together that this guy wasn't being honest about a shower being non-sexual. You can't view your age because you decided to post Anonymous, so all she knows is that you're 18-24, like her. Not to start any kind of conflict, you just sounded a wee bit edgy in your reply ;) - 5 months ago
I don't think age really matters, it's more of experience and life conditions. But hey, hope all really goes well to you and your decision will last till marriage :)) - 5 months ago
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I've done and seen things too early and most important when I wasn't ready. Your question was about his intentions with the shower, I gave you an answer for that. Also, just because he seems to respect that, doesn't mean he really does. Men know ways how to trick women. My guy actually told me he respects that I wanted to be virgin, but he still kept on touching & initiating intimate things, I gave up because I wanted to know what its like. How long you've been knowing each other? - 5 months ago
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I didn't mean to sound upset, but I have very torn feelings about sex in general. I want to have children some day, but I'm the one who found out my father was sleeping with my best friends mother so the whole thing is a touchy subject. This guy and I have a very strange relationship, he is a little older than me and sometimes he teases and says I'm practically a baby, but then other times he wants me to come over. I like him, I just don't know what to make of him. - 5 months ago
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Gosh, well that sounds a lot similar to the guy I was or still am involved with. It's hard to tell where we stand, because he shows that he kind of cares, but still not getting into details it looks like fwb. Maybe he has ever told you that he's very experienced and wants you to experience it or somethin like that,.? how old is him by the way? - 5 months ago
Don't trust him. Their is nothing nonsexual about showering together. That is sexual and that is how he wants it to be. Also, I'm sure if you offered yourself to him he wouldn't hesitate so that doesn't want to be your first stuff is probably crap too.
i think he wants some pron but I don't know maybe he just wants to hold you or.he wants sex but he doesn't want to scare you I don't know this is probably the most crappy answer any1 could give but what the hey?
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