There is a girl in my class that I've liked for awhile but was unsure how she felt about me. Through a friend, I learned that she knew about me liking her but she was confused as to why I wouldn't ask her out . So I asked her to grab lunch but we ended up planning a movie.
She seemed to like me.she ran into my friend and mentioned to her that I had asked her to lunch. My friend reported this to me and said she seemed to like me based on the way she talked about me.
I was kind of nervous and quiet and didn't know what to expect but at the end of the movie she suggested that we could get dinner or see another movie again sometime. She also tried to invite me into her home to show me around, if I could find parking (which was too difficult).
When I asked her to go to dinner a week later, she then asked if it was as friends or as a date. I didn't know how to answer, so I told her that I liked her and then she replied that she couldn't get in a relationship because we were in class together. But she said I should think about things.she seems to want to be friends.
What is going on? She seems to like me based on how she acted but then she surprised me with this.
It sounds like she didn't know what she wanted. But know it sounds like she probably doesn't want to date you because maybe if you brake up it would be really awkward in class. So just tell her that you are willing to be just friends but ask her if in the future if she would consider going out with you. Maybe after a while of going out to stuff as friends she will be comfortable with dating. I know I would say no, if a guy in my class asked me out because, there would always be that tension in between you. And if you just want to be friends it could definitely ruin the friendship. Not to mention if you ended on bad terms. So try the friendship thing, good luck! :)
Girls can be bitches, move on and don't give her the time of day! Guys put themselves out there and as girls we should have enough respect to tell them if we want to be with them or not.
I think that's stupid that she doesn't want a relationship with a class mate unless she's unsure. lol if you want to really find out what she thinks about you just ask here out to dinner and say its for a date, then say just think about it. Maybe you'll get her that way idk. Good luck to you though
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I would go to a concert on the beach. It's fun and romantic at the same time, maybe lay down by the ocean facing each other, and just have a nice conversation. I would wear a bikini top and shorts. The date would end with me saying goodbye, and he'd grab my hand and pull me into him and give me a nice hug with a kiss on the cheek. Saying "can I call you tonight?"
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I love music, it's my life. I'm a musician I'm going to Australia for a battle of the bands. I love to play soccer and rugby. My family, names of siblings. Anything he'd want to know. I'd only go out with him if I trusted him:)