theres this bloke I like a lot he's a barman at my local. I was sure he liked me but blew hot and cold a little. neither of us would admit it of course. I know stupid. well I got to like him more and more so a while ago I told him I'm not going there no more and good luck with his career and take care. he rushed off and looked extremely upset he wouldn't say goodbye. well I can't stop thinking of him. he has no way to contact me. should I go and tell him or just leave it.not really sure if that's what he would want or not. or should I give him my number and hope he calls. ahhh what to do?
just give him your number and forget about it. At least if he never calls then you'll know. This way you'll never wonder what if. You might have been playing games with his head so he might not even know if you truly like him. Just be straight forward. Don't hesitate. If you never see him again then you have nothing to lose. Don't go back and talk to him expecting him to ask for your number. Just give it to him! I wish more girls would do this.
Yes I know what you mean but I definitely weren't playing games I really like him ALOT its just I was finding it hard to keep seeing him when nothing was happening between us. I was worried about telling him or offering my number in case he thought I was nuts or easy. didn't want to put him off. think I would be so crushed and shamed if he said he weren't interested. I've never been so nervous of a bloke before you see. thanks. - 5 months ago
I think you saying your not coming back anymore wasn't really the right thing to say. As a guy if I was in his perspective I'd be more hurt instead of thinking "hey this is a sign I should make a move."
Go back. Even if it doesn't end up becoming anything, at least you'll know. He was probably a bit hurt I think, when you said you weren't comin back, and it would have confused him too no doubt. Good luck with it all. :)
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