My boyfriend and I both work hard for our money while going to college. Sometimes I work 13 hour shift and get out 5 in the morning.
There is this one couple, where boyfriend is an alcoholic, and the girl, I used to think of her as a little sister and whenever I can help out, I have helped her out. She is a very nice girl. or so I thought. She ran out of gas, I drove out to start her car, buy her lunch. and stuff like that. I didn't do it often enough for her to think that she can just bum off from me.
Yesterday was my boyfriend's birthday, so we invited all the "friends" to our house and partied. Before the party, I asked her if she wanted to come with us to eat, but she said she didn't have much money. I told her we could share a plate but I didn't mean that I would pay for her meal. It was only $10, so I let it go, but when she and her boyfriend came over, they came empty handed. We made it clear that they could either come with their own drinks or chip in on the keg.
I'm SOOOOOOO frustrated with these freeloaders. After this incident, I don't want to talk to either of them. Would you do the same thing?
Nobody likes someone who constantly don't reciprocate back. Has she ever done anything to help you when you needed it, even if it's not related to money? If this friend of yours is like a sister, I would talk with her and tell her how you feel about it. Or you can decide not to help her out anymore in terms of financial means.
hardworking girl that's good!.i know a whole family that is just like that and well I have to deal with them, but in your case your worked to do the party, I would just do the same thing back act as a freeloader.sooner or later it has to stop if not I would look for new friends, my opinion.
You know when you are being used and they know a sucker when they see one. It seems you were the one always giving in this relationship with this girl because you have yet to say what she has ever done for you.
Dump this duo before you need to take out a loan to pay for them.
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