Here's the situation. There's this girl at work. For a couple of months we never really talked to each other and finally one day, we started talking a little bit. I added her to Facebook and from that point on we talked every day for well over a month. We exchanged phone numbers and were getting along great.
Then one day, my girlfriend at the time found out what I was doing. She emailed this new interest in a detailed letter that I had wrote explaining my intentions and reasons for doing what I was doing. This new interest was quite understanding and told me over and over again to not worry about it. My girlfriend broke up with me over this with good reason.
My new interest and I continued talking for a bit, but then drifted apart for about a month. Just recently, we started talking and doing more with each other this time. I have done small favors for her such as pick up breakfast and drive her around to run some errands. She has done some for me as well such as buy and cook lunch for me a couple of times. I work with her so we talk many times a day. We call each other every so often, she even rode around in my van one day with me. She has made references for activities that we could be doing in the future. During this whole ordeal, I am still trying to be friends with my ex-girlfriend. Everything was going fine until the other night, I was out with my ex-girlfriend and all our friends and we saw my new interest. My ex-girlfriend threatened her as she was very drunk, but nothing came of it. My new interest ended up coming back to the bar that same night and talked to me a bit, hugged me, introduced me to her friends, then left again. Once again, she was quite understanding about the situation and doesn't blame me for anything that happened. We still chatted at work and she said she'll call me. I'm waiting on her call.
I would love some help on this situation. I would like to continue this relationship with my new interest, but I feel like she is playing me like she did in the past. Is this new time around different? Any comments would help on this situation as I have no idea what to think. Thank you for taking the time to read this.
I don't think she's playing you. I think she's worried that you're still interested in your ex-girlfriend. Maybe you should try to be a little more forward with her; ask her out on an outing with some of your other friends, show her she means something to you and that you want her to be a part of your life. Let things progress from there. If all goes well, ask her out. Also, at work, talk about why things didn't work out with your ex, say things about how this new interest isn't like that. Compliment her more often. I wish you the best of luck!
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