Just out of curiosity ONLY I just wanted to get your feedback. I was hanging out with a bunch of friends last nite for like 1-2 hours and the guy I am interested in was there but he was busy talking to other people the whole time. He made a couple of comments to me when I first got there but other than that he said nothing to me the rest of the time I was there even tho I was near him for most of the evening. I figure it's already 9pm I might as well go, so I decided to leave. In order to get to the front door I had to pass by him, so I did but he didn't see me/notice and when I was outside heading to my car I heard him call my name.
I turn around and I was like "Yes?" and I walk a few steps back into his direction but stopped about 10-15 feet away from him and he says "You didn't say goodbye." I told him I didn't say goodbye because he seemed busy talking to other people and I didn't want to interrupt him.
He then said I still could have said goodbye. So I said "But but but.you were busy." and so I was like "Okay bye." and I waved. He chuckles and then he starts to chuckle and says "I'm just messing with you, say goodbye next time, don't be so antisocial." and then he laughs and heads back inside. So I shouted."Fine I'll say bye next time!" and he laughs and says "Okay."
And that was it. Just curious as to what you all think.
He likes you at least as a friend. You are important to him because he took the effort to notice you when he could have easily ignored you or lost track of you. The fact that he took effort to notice you and actually think about you is subtle but it means you are on his mind one way or another. You are at least an important friend to him or he likes you.
Grr it didn't post last time. What I tried to comment was that he noticed that I wasn't around and went to look for me outside just to tell me I didn't even say goodbye. - 4 months ago
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Same thing. If he noticed you were not around it still means he was thinking about you. - 4 months ago
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That's what I'm saying lol...kind of makes me curious that he went looking for me just to tell me that I didn't say goodbye to HIM. I should have told him he didn't say goodbye to me either lol. - 4 months ago
I think the guy is just trying to know how strong your feelings are for him, for the fact that his attention seems not be in your direction does mean his heart is not with you.cos if his heart is not with you he will never follow you when you take your live.
whenever that happens to me I soon find out that the guy is crushing on me and he did that to flirt and to make it obvious to me that he cares. maybe he was ignoring you the whole time because he didn't know what to say to you and was nervous. i may be wrong, he might have been trying to become friends with you, but I say pay closer attention next time this guy might like you back
Im trying but I don't know what to do with him lol...cause if ur right I wish he'd ask me out already. - 4 months ago
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He might be scared or nervous or just waiting for the right time. what you got to do is give him the green light to ask you out. flirt with him and start talking to him more! let him feel comfortable with you. - 4 months ago
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I have been...and he doesn't even do it. A bunch of us were hanging out today and at one point everyone was leaving and I was talking to a friend alan who he's mutually friends with also...and the guy I like who was parked 2 spots away just walked to his car and didn't say anything until the mutual friend said something to him and that's when he said bye...so I made a remark about saying bye and he laughed but that's it...so I'm confused now. - 4 months ago
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If he's avoiding you and not looking at you.. then he definitely likes you. its a guy thing I guess. I know how you feel and its sooo annoying:P try talking to him more and directly to him! - 4 months ago
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He's not avoiding me per say but I mean it's like one minute and he's completely random and chases after me just to tell me that I didn't say goodbye..and the next day I'm out by my car talking to a mutual friend of his and he just heads to his car without saying anything cause if I didn't make a joke about the goodbye thing he would have just got in his car and left...its like confusing me..and not really giving me any hope either :| - 4 months ago
The only thing I really want to say is this - don't spend nights out at parties or social gatherings watching and analyzing his every move, waiting for him to notice you. I wasted so much time doing that with guys who ended up being no more than just friends or acquaintances.
Be social, talk with other people, make your own good time, and if a guy is interested in you, he will join in whatever you're doing.
I don't know why exactly this guy came outside and said that, maybe he was sticking in his comfort zone and chatting with friends, thinking you weren't interested in talking to him. I don't think I would ever use the word "antisocial" if I was trying to flatter the person I liked though.
One of my best guy friends would say something like that to me. Not really sure if it would mean anything though, he could like you the fast he cased you outside just to say that. Try being more open next time.
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