The question really interested me so I decided to ask - why do men get turned on by watching strippers dance? It's not like she's giving you a lap dance - I mean all she's doing is just dancing around so you could give her money - why would you even want to spend money on such things? I would understand if she's offering sex at that right moment but she's offering a dance that you really just waste money on!
To those guys or should I say "men" that go there what's so special about strippers? There are many strip clubs where I go to school and "men" that come out of there are sophisticated and intelligent (or so I thought) but it's very intriguing to know what drives them to go to such a place especially when you had a fight with your girlfriend or a wife!?
Not trying to diss anybody but if you're married yea I'm dissing you cause you rather spend money on worthless crap than stare at your beautiful wives for free and spend money on them!
I love going to strip bars and it has nothing to do with my wife. It is a way of seeing beautiful women teasing and showing themselves which I love. There is no commitment involved and they do things that frankly are not done in a normal sexual relationship. Women are very sexy and these are women that are showing you how sexy they are. I also love seeing women in lingerie and in strip bars the girls walk around in bras and panties and you can watch the take them off and put them on and I really enjoy that.
Ok I see your point so in other words you want a variety of different women in different lingerie - but why? I know you just answered why but is there a more deeper meaning as to why to? - 4 months ago
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It's hard to explain, but its a visual turn on. Women are like flowers, if you just liked roses for example would you never want to look at lilly's? I love the differences in breast size and hip size. I love seeing the way the bra straps run over their shoulders and the way the panties hang on their hips. I like to see a full breast in a lace underwire bra and a small breast in the same. - 4 months ago
men could ask the question of women: why do women love cut flowers? why do women love something that's gonna die and rot in less than 72 hours? they don't serve a logical function savy smell good and look colorful for a brief time. but they do nothing but lift your spirits for a brief time.
Ok I see your point except that I really don't like cut flowers I just looking at them why they're still in nature...and yea they do lift your spirits but it just doesn't fit right... - 4 months ago
Well it's basically just fantasy when guys go to strip clubs. They love hot girls. Hot girls are at strip clubs. So they pay to watch hot girls strip. It also kind of stems from guys wanting to be the ultimate stud and have hot girls all around focusing on ONLY him. Kind of a self-esteem thing sometimes but that's only if you want to get into the neurons and synapses of things.
It seems to me that women are not turned on visually and that is a big disconnect with guys. We read about it and hear about women being turned on...
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