That's what my friend says. She says you should never love a man too much or give too much of yourself to him, because he's trying to take advantage of you. I met a guy that I thought had really good morals, and he tried to do friend with benefits (said no), tried to get me in the shower with him (said no) tried to control me (I let him do that) Never thought I'd get that from him.
I somewhat agree with what the girls said, not all guys will take advantage of you but 85% will 14% will be nice and seem like they will never take advantage of you but there is always a chance that may be trying to take advantage of you.
The thing about 99% of all guys is they will go to extreme lengths, say and do anything to get what they want. For example my sister met this guy he seemed perfect everyone in the family like him, except me. He was polite, kind, and seemed to really love her. Everyone in my family said I was crazy and I didn't know what talking about. Now she has two kids he is cheating on her, fighting with her, and, I suspect, he is abusing her. She is in hell and is too deep in to get out and thinks he really lover her, so now that the rest of the family see how bad this guy is we can't help her.
Just about all guys will take advantage of you or at least think about it. I don't clam to be on of the 1% of guys that is really won't try to take advantage of girls. I have thought of using a girl once, but my morals got the better of me (thank god), and I sat her down told her the truth got punched in the stomach and kneed a little lower and that was that.
I feel all women should keep their distance from all men, don't give them what they want till your absolutely 100% positive he won't do anything to hurt you, and even then take it slow for a while after that.
I say this to warn all women this is from a guys perspective most guys think like dogs. I hope all you girls out there proceed with caution. I have see far too many girls who have had their hearts torn out by some guy and all of them say "he was just so nice and sincere I can't believe he did this to me". I just hate to see a girl so hurt for believing in love. I hate that people who did no wrong can be hurt so badly.
Its so sad that we can't be trusting towards someone who says they want to love you. But in this world the demons are slowly gaining more and more power. These are just some of the truths that we choose, with good reason, to ignore.
I don't think every single guy will take advantage of you, but most will. Not to say that they are all assholes, but that's just human nature. If you are a doormat then you will get walked all over. I think a lot of girls trust too quickly and that makes you an easy target.
This would only be true if you thought that sex was a bad thing for women. If you think that any time a woman has sex she's being taken advantage of, then yeah, pretty much all straight guys will want to do that.
not all guys are like this; I know one guy in my life in particular that proved me wrong when I almost felt that way. there are a lot of guys that will try to mess with you for fun but just keep in mind that its the same for guys.
some people become bitter when they get hurt and try to hurt others; that is the reason why some might be nice at first but change later.
No its not true that '' all guys will try to take advantage of you '' that's unjust THINKING. The fact of the matter is people only do what we allow , but that's not say there aren't guys out here that will try and succeed at taking advantage of you . Your friend seems to be an ''expert'' , but while she told you 1 fact in the on going saga of guy verses girl did she mention that her type of thinking ( which could soon turn into yours) will only keep you from finding and TRUSTING someone that TRULY cares for you. This type of thinking only makes you OBLIVIOUS to your surroundings and only keeps guys and YOUR guy ( when and if you find him) at bay. She's right you should NEVER give to much , but it seems like she maybe putting fear into you. Its up to you 2 decide where you draw the line and what is too much. You should NEVER give too much of yourself so soon and you should always be cautious. However you should NEVER assume every guy will be the same because in spite of it all there are great guys out here . You may not be meeting quality people , but then you have to wonder is this because your not getting quality advice ? You just have to be patient and not put all of your eggs in one BASKET. I know its easier said then done , but it should be done.
No, not all guys are out to take advantage of all girls in their lives. I have several guy friends that have never tried to take advantage of me in any way, I take that back they would try to make me do things like run and get them food. But they are good guys with pure intentions. And I've dated a couple guys that are genuine and honest. Some have really tried to pull me through the ringer but not all of them. You really just need to keep your eyes open for the ones that are jerking you around early on.
Ok. Not all guys are evil. What your friend said is not true. I would change it to *Never love a man too quickly or give too much of yourself too quickly because he may take advantage of you.* There are some great guys out there. And in all honesty some women are not to be trusted. You just have to let time pass and make them earn your trust as well as earn some yourself. It takes time.and no guy/gal that is just wanting sex (or other alterior motives) will wait around. They will move on to the next person that is easier. The truth of the matter is that a lot of people do not have pure intentions.not all of them.
I like your take this, and I really do hate to disagree with you, but the truth is that there are a small amount of guys out there who will wait around to get sex or other motives. I do hate to expose such harsh truths, but by facing them we can protect ourselves that much more. Even so your approach is the best one 'cause the other option is to be cold and never even look for love. To find love we have to risk being hurt, this is one of few truths I am glad to expose. - 5 months ago
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You should have told her before you got there and when was she going to be ready next time let her know ahead of time so she could be ready by the time you get there.
Don't let anybody do anything until you're ready. Guys will pressure you like crazy but they have more respect for girls that say "no" when they aren't ready.
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