A girl that lives in the same dorm as my boyfriend, dropped her cell phone in the hallway. My boyfriend was the one to find it, so he looked up who owned it, and went to her room to return it to her. She answered the door in a bra, and thong. My boy, of course shocked, asked if the cell was hers. She said yah, and then my boyfriend left. That is all according to my boy. I believe him to not cheat on me, and I do appreciate him telling me these little meaningless happenings. But the funny thing is, after that happened, he asked around about her. Some guys who knew about her was like, "Oh yah, she's the girl who got moved here because she was having sex with every guy in the other dorm". He also told me about that info. Im just curious on why he would even ask about her? Was he curious on who she was? Or was he thinking about her all night/day? I mean, when he was telling me about it, he sounded upset that anyone would do that. he was like, shouldnt she wear clothes before answering the door? Or maybe some guy was in her room. IM just listening to him thinking, why does he care? Guys, what does that mean? Its really not a big deal, but it bothers me that it seemed to bother him. And the fact that he even asked other guys about her? wtf is it normal? just curiousity? what?
Update: Guys. I need your input too :( please?
5 months ago
Maybe he wanted to see if that was a normal scenario at that particular dorm. and so he asked the guys around the area to find out what kind of girl would do a thing like that.
also, I know that your guy is loyal to you, if he was not, he would not think about telling you the details that push the situation towards a sexual side. so with that, hear this. Your guy is loyal, however, men are visually driven.
not to say that he's driven to the girl in the thong, but hear me out.
you what it is like to have a song stuck in your head, and the only way to get it out is to either listen to the song, or listen to another song again and again.
guys to an extent are the same way with visual stimulation. although he loves you, he can't get the image of the other girl out of his head, until he asks about her out of desperation in order to get her out of his mind.
It's not so much that he wants to act shady, and it's also not so much that he wants this girl. Out of the need for normal thoughts, out of the need for normal thinking, he simply had to get her out of his head.
If you want to help him, make him forget the other girl by doing something equally as shocking and equally as sexy.
surprise him in a new nighty. or something to that effect.
he is with you 100%, I know how it looks, but he is with you, and wants to be with you, and he wants you to trust him that he knows what he needs to do.
yes to see some other girl like that is always something you can't forget. more over when he discuss with you its like he still remembers and wonders about the situation. its normal.
Yes, yes,yes,it's totally normal. Guessing she's attractive, he hasn't been greeted at the door by too many girls like that and it makes an impression! I wouldn't worry about it too much. Although with her reputation he might find an excuse to knock on the door again!
Yah that's what I I'm thinking. I mean my first reaction was "she's probably just comfortable with her body", and being that she sleeps with every guy, maybe its not a big deal to her to be seen naked. Am I right on that? so... I don't know, I didn't care about it until my guy friend started saying s*** like, he probably wants to f*** her, or likes her. And now I'm worried. - 5 months ago
Answerer
There is no need to worry,there might be many reasons he asked about her - 5 months ago
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