Nope, better to break the cycle now. People who have trouble regulating their anger will repeat the mistakes. Keep in mind that decisions made in anger are emotional outbursts, not reasoned responses based on the situation or past promises. You'll end up trying to avoid provoking his anger and in the end cause emotional damage to yourself.
Sweetheart, everyone on this board is giving you smart answers and enforcing something that you know in your heart you need to do. I know it must be hard especially if you love this guy and feel torn between standing by someone you care about.What kind of person would you be if you bailed when things got tough, right? In this situation, if you walk away it doesn't mean your a coward or have bad morals/relationship ethics.Standing by someone is because you love, believe, and have pride in meaning of "together". Staying because you feel like somewhere down the line you may have failed, or ashamed for believing in what could have been so right is not worth sacrificing your sweet soul that's still innocent from believing in love. What you have in your heart is so great and precious to allow bruising jade you; filling yourself with shattered nonsense and fear. Unless, your boyfriend has actively reached out and sought ways to release anger in another outlet turning into something positive.Otherwise, fights escalate topping the last.Only you can decide when you've had enough and exhausted yourself realizing being in a relationship doesn't mean it has to be forever, and its truly alright to leave ending one.
You're under 18. You've got a lot of life ahead of you. Get away from him now, and move on to the good part. There are plenty of guys out there who won't hit you at all. Doesn't that sound better?
No! Abusers always say that. The fact that he even hit you shows that something is seriously wrong. Most men will walk away if they know they are that angry. He's not going to say, "Yeah, baby I will beat you if you make me mad again".lol sorry, it's just best to end it now before you get too deep.
how often has he hit you? If I were you I wouldn't stand to give the guy a second chance. No matter how mad the guy was, it wouldn't give him the right to hit you.
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