i don't want to sound conceited but I'm attractive I get checked out a lot, I get told I'm hilarious (cant sp?) my friends are always laughing at my jokes ect.i have a good sense of style people have actually asked to come shopping with me : / I can dance- I get a lot of complements---i'm not a nerd or really popular I'm laid back - not a jealous girl at all-as far as I know I'm not stuck up or bitchy. I'm fairly smart not like Harvard brilliant but I get good grades and remember too much. I'm that girl in science, history,and english that people come to help for I've been told by several people that I'm easy to talk to or they feel for some reason that they are at ease with me aren't these traits that guys go for? so why do I continually fall in the just friends category.
i thought guys liked smart ,pretty ,funny. I am a little awkward with guys but I'm not horrible ( I hope)
From the sounds of it, you could be very intimidating to guys. As you probably have figured out by now, there are the nice guys and well, the rest of the guys; you might be a great catch for the nice guy, but those guys are most likely too shy to come and talk to you.for the rest of the guys----you know, the rest that just want to get laid----you might be too smart for them so they don't even try cause you might take some effort to break in. So in your case, it seems you will have to find a guy you like, and make some flirtatious effort to make them be interested in you.
But sometimes I can be shy too :( and I'm pretty but not like slow mo georgous so I don't see what could be SO itimidating ty! - 5 months ago
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You don't have to be drop dead gorgeous to be intimidating; you could be pretty, smart, well dressed (all that you described), and intimidate guys. Remember, the so called good guys, are the ones that most likely you would like dating, but those are the ones that don't have the balls to come up and talk to you. Its an ironic catch 22 ;) - 5 months ago
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Well thanku! it just sucks because I want a Boyfriend or a least hang out and have fun guys need to stop being such sissies and man up! : / - 5 months ago
Answerer
Well, when you're a guy and you ask girls out and you get rejected all the times, is not easy. So many guys just get intimidated by that and many times they don't go for it. Been there done that myself. So that's why I recommend if you like a guy, make the extra effort to send him the right signals that you're not going to slaughter him down if he approaches you. :) - 5 months ago
Well, sometimes that leads to intimidation, and guys don't think they can "nab" you as their girlfriend, so you might want to be more flirty or pursue a guy outright. Also you might be coming off as desperate, which doesn't bode well for either gender. Plus sometimes, and not everyone knows this but, one's body language says "get the heck away, not interested" even if in your mind you are "take me now!" You might want to try being more conscious about your body language, and the language of guys too. Believe it or not, we can be very subtle when flirting :-). I've given up on many a girl to find out later that they've been interested in me for ages but neither of us noticed the interest of the other. I do agree with the whole catch 22 for most of the "nice guys." Some do have the balls, those tend to be the ones that are taken.
what I understand from what are seeing that anyone who don't ask you or even think about asking you to go out he's such a losser , for my self I wish that I meet someone who's smart and honest and maybe if I was lucky it gonna be pretty , Trust me you're not awkward or anything but every person need to be treated in a special way because everyone girls or guys they have something special , but some people they don't want to spend time to figure it out either they're too lazy or just want to get laid , like I said you'll find someone who appreciate you good luck .
Most guys are intimidated by brains.it's just a part of our culture that being smart in a woman is STILL considered unfeminine. That's why girls do poorly especially at math once they hit puberty, they don't want to appear 'unfeminine."
The upside is that only the GOOD ones are going to overcome that stereotype and come after you. They will be few but they will tend to be worthwhile.
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