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What's with the cold shoulder?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: More than a year ago
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Ok so I was seeing an ex-boyfriend from like 10 years ago and he and I decided we would be friends with benfits because neither one of us were ready for a relationship. Well everything was going great until all of a sudden he stopped calling and making plans to come over, it was all me. So I asked him if he was moving on and he told me I was over reacting and that he would let me know when that time came. Why is he no longer calling and giving me the cold shoulder? Men please let me know!

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Genesis5
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Genesis5 (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
I agree with DeanW here.

Also, I don't mean to be harsh with this,... but it sounds like you were not friends with benefits, but that you were his booty call. Which means he doesn't have any feelings for you at all.

Since you are asking this question, it seems like you do have some feelings for him, so I would say, forget about him and move on, otherwise you may get yourself hurt by investing your feelings into someone that isn't doing the same with you.

Best of luck here.
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f15x28
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f15x28 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
I don't think friends with benefits is a good idea. The whole purpose of that is no emotional attachment, which you are beginning to develop... maybe?
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DeanW
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DeanW (Age:30 to 35)      When: More than a year ago
Sounds to me like he's dating another girl but isn't sure if it'll work out. You're in the bullpen and will be called in if she doesn't work out.
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