Sorry for the length of this. I have been working with this guy for about eight months. He didn't really say much to me in the beginning, but he would laugh at my jokes and I often saw him looking at me across the room. Then I stopped working for a while because of school, and when I came back, he started kind of seeking me out at work or so I thought. He would always come over to my area if he knew I was there, but he also visits some other coworkers in areas other than mine, but I think not as frequently. He saw me reading a philosophy book one night, and when I helped him in his area the next night he tried to impress me with his knowledge of philosophy and then asked me if he was talking too much. That same night he convinced me to stay late to help him. He then told me about his ex and how she screwed him over and that he hasn't wanted to date since her, but then said maybe that would change soon. Often he would wait until I got my things at the end of the night in order to walk out with me, but never once has he initiated anything or asked me out. I felt I was getting mixed signals so I didn't ask him out either. The thing that makes me think he is interested in me is that he looks at me all the time and seems to know where I am at all times. Then something changed in his demeanor when he think he evesdropped on me telling someone at work that I haven't really liked anyone since my ex and I broke up. This is kind of self-sabotage on my part since I do like my coworker, but I didn't intend on him hearing this. He is so sneaky and sometimes I feel as if I have no personal space. He still looks at me, but now he kind of immaturely ducks and hides so I don't see him do it. When I walk towards him, he often turns walks the opposite direction. I hear from other coworkers that he asks about me, and he seems to remember a lot of things I say. I approached him asking if he was mad at me because his ignoring me made for a strange working environment and he stalled, saying he wasn't mad. Then later that night he came up to me and asked me if that was all I wanted to talk about with a smirk on his face. Since then if I've talked to him he's just been kind of a dick and he tries hard not to flirt, but I always see him looking over at me. Now I feel like ignoring him! Does this guy like me or is he just an immature jerk? How would I go about fixing this without making myself look as creepy as him?
Hm, in the beginning it did sound a bit like a crush. the fact he didn't say anything to you yet he looked over at you and was always curious about you are definite signs of a crush and with the philosophy he was trying to make his "big move" and win you over by impressing you and he seeks attention right now REALLY BAD and he expects you to go over and start up a conversation because he's obviously way too shy and still hurt from his ex but honestly I think its HIS turn to do the talking just ignore him and the answer will come clearly whether he's playing you or he's into you but he may have a crush on you and he's confused because he heard you say you didn't like anyone so ignore him for say 2-3 days or until he goes over and explains himself then you can apologize for saying you didn't like anyone I hope this was somewhat helpful this is the first question I've answered on this site sooooo yeah.
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