after a year of dating and as of last weekend everything was fine, my boyfriend will not talk to me. answer my call or respond to my texts. I know I didn't do anything wrong,. he knows this is hurting my yet nothing. WHY? if he wants it over why can't he say it?this is tearing my apart
Update: still nothing. he's made it clear how he feels, or more so DOESN'T feel. whatever this past year was about,who knows.i can't get it back & I do not want to and will nor be with a man who doesn't care about me.im not waisting anymore love or time on him
4 months ago
It sucks to be dumped like this. Assume it's over or he's in a ditch somewhere and can't return your calls. In extreme cases have you tried showing up at his door when he's home? I would assume after a year of dating you know his whereabouts and if you really want to know you can track him down instead of calling or txting.
It HAS to be more to this story. did you guys argue? did he tell you he didn't want to talk to you anymore and MAYBE you thought he was joking? I don't know, I would be confused too. But there has to be more to this than a random act of dismissal after dating for a year.
Nope. true story. actually the weekend before he checked out, he told me and lots of ther people how much he loved me. that's why this is seo hard. but, I'm feeling better. I've reached the conclusion that, the reason really doesn't matter. if he can hurt me like this, and by the way I still haven't talked to him, y be with him. whether I was stupid, to trusting etc., if I was used or whatever, I can't change that. can't get the year back. he has made it clear how he really feels, - 4 months ago
I know how you feel. There are some guys out there who are too coward to be honest, and get it over with (break up with us). Instead they slowly destroy us by doing this. I don't have any advice for you because I'm kinda going thru the same thing. I noticed calling and texting him wasnt helping at all. I think it pushed him away even more. Iv finally decided to let it go. Im not saying you should too. But doesn't it hurt you when he doesn't reply? Or when he doesn't answer your calls? Don't you feel rejected? and abandoned? It leaves you hurt, upset, confused. Right? So STOP. Dont hurt yourself anymore. Just let it go. And see what happens. I know its not easy, its not easy at all. But try to focus on other things. Contact a friend whenver you feel the urge to contact him. Call a friend, or text a friend. it helps alil. Im really sorry your boyfriend is treating you this way. You don't deserve it, and you know it yourself. So, stick up for yourself, and do what's best. Let go.
P.S. If you need closure, send him a goodbye email. Write down everything you want to say to him. How you truly feel. It will help you feel alil better about letting go. Atleast it will let him know that he had someone who loved him more than anyone probably would. Don't make the email sound like you are expecting a reply from him. Because you already know he wont. So don't make it an open email. Just end it.
maybe he doesn't want to be with you anymore and he dosen't really no how to tell you because he really doesn;t want to hurt you and he just might be hopein that you get the point and stop callin wat other reason could there be he could just be missin every single one of ur calls on mastake he is on games you need to let him go
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