Theres this guy chris that I haven't been dating but we have met on several occasions to have sex. honestly I've never hung out with the dude its all sex. but I've found that I've grown a certain attraction to him as more than just a "f*** buddy" he has told me he also feels this way but he's so damn complicated. he won't make a move. doesn't exactly ignore me but we rarely talk, I guess I'm partially to blame cause I don't make the notion to text him or call, he gets jealous if he hears about me being with another guy or sees it, he's showing some signs of attraction but not many. like playing hard to get? but point is I don't like it. Is there advice any guy could give me that might know what's going through Chris's head and what it is he wants me to do?
This Chris fello appear to be some what of a player am I right? Its seems he really does have feelings for you he's just uncomfortable with them because he's not use to feeling that way. usually it is just sex but with you its different for him. So don't worry just treat him right and eventually he'll warm up to the idea and begin to feel comfortable.
You're right to try to change things because sex should be an added bonus not the focal point. Nobody ever gave you the right to let yourself be used please don't let him do it. The talking/dating thing should be happening regularly. Go out to the cinema of for lunch or just hang out. If not then get rid because you need to keep your self respect. You're worth more than a quick s**g. Hold off on the sex the odd night and see if he sticks around. If he doesn't there's someone lovely out there for you who won't treat you like an object.
Thank-you that was really insightful.. I've never really consider the thought that I was being gulp used.. now that I look at it from that perspective I think your right and I am going to hold off. maybe he'll surprise me and stick around=D - 4 months ago
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