Do girls like...

Well it depends on a girl BUT for me I LOVEEEEEEEEE NICE GUYS!!! I just find that very sexy and attractive! Hell if a guy is nice and sweet, I don't give a shit to how he looks even! I JUST LOVE NICE GUYS!

Yeah it does depend on the girl! Not all girls are the same you know. For instance I like guys that are sweet and nice because you can trust them, that's for me. I dislike bad boys, Ive had situations with bad boys and all they did was cheat and lie. So not everyone is the same. Know what I mean?

Depends on the girl--I married a "nice guy" and I know several girl friends who did the same thing, so there you go. I find that somewhat immature girls go for bad boys--grown women prefer a man who will treat them with respect. If you chase after a girl who is mentally immature and you are "nice" expect to get no play--if however, you approach the right "type" of woman who respects herself as well as others, she will at least give a nice guy a chance...

It really just depends on the girl.

I like nice guys with a PINCH of badness only.

Yes, but I think it's really dumb. Most girls like a bad boy because they think they can change them. Usually they get hurt by them in the end, so if you want a meaningful relationship just be yourself, and treat girls with respect. In the end all that matters is that you like someone and they like you for you. So nice guys in the long run will find someone, whereas bad guys will have a bunch of flings. (if you're into that thing then I guess go for it)

Girls like guys who can take control...be a man...someone strong. They tend to mistake that for a bad boy...but it doesn't have to be that way.

Personally, I like the bad boy image, but once they are disrescpetful or swear I am over them. So I think you can dress as a bad boy but still be a nice and good one. No matter what, girls like the sweet guy in the end. =]

Being yourself is the most important or in the long run she'll think you're fake, but I always preferred a nice guy. Doing things like surprising her with hugs from (the back), playing with her hair, whispering sweet things in her ear (even when his friends were around) are few things I personally love most.

They want bad boys at first, especially out in public, to impress their friends that they have what it takes to land and conquer the sexy/dangerous/free spirit that nobody else can handle.

Then they want you to be a nice guy when its time to settle down, or certainly when you're having a disagreement or "meaningful" conversation about where your relationship is headed.

Then they want you to shift back into bad boy mode on the weekend when you've sent the kids away to grandparents and so on. But you'd better shift back into nice guy mode when you're taking care of the baby when she's at her sisters' for the weekend.

I'm a little facetious here, but I think its true that they hardly ever just want simply one or the other. There are advantages and attractions to both types (sexy, independent, intriguing) and (gentle, devoted, open) and you not only have to shift quickly and seemlessly between the two, you also have to develop skill at reading her mind which one she prefers at a given point in time.

Good luck doing that correctly! It ain't easy.

Its about as easy as your sex kitten girlfriend in the bedroom ALSO impressing mom when you bring her home ALSO being looking like a supermodel ALSO catering to you and your kids at home ALSO holding an insightful conversation with you about the west coast offense.

I don't think that it is so much that girls like bad boys (except for the fact that no matter how bad the girl gets, the guy is always worse), but that they like the qualities that they have.

Most "bad boys," are independent (emotionally at least), are unpredictable, and don't usually put up with people's crap. I think that these are some of the things that girls go for.

After all, most girls don't want a guy that is always hanging on their every word, or that they can predict everything they do, or that let people walk all over them or take advantage of them. These are normally traits of "nice guys."

The most successful "daters" are those guys that are confident (you don't have to be arrogant or cocky, just confident in yourself). Also the ones that are spontaneous, girls like a guy that can show them a good time (and not always dinner and a movie,... go rock climbing, snorkeling, skating, etc,... whatever,... and plan things and take her, don't always ask "is this idea ok?").

Finally, don't let people walk all over you, especially her. Have you ever heard that people want what they don't have,... it's true.

I went on a little longer here than I should have, but overall, I don't really think that girls are really into the "bad boy" but more so into the bad boys traits.

Hope that helps more than confusing the issue.