Okay, me and this guy started off as friends. just friends. now he likes me. He calls me everyday, gives me presents, he wants to hug me, kiss me on my forehead and things like that, but I just DON'T like him like that. He wants something more, but the thought of having something more with him, makes me sick to my stomach. I'm very scared that if I tell him I don't like him like that, I'm going to lose his friendship,and now I'm really scared because he just went to get a tattoo of me and my daughter on his arm. I know I have told him I don't want a relationship, but I haven't told him I don't see him like that. what do I do?
you already lost this guy as a friend. He clearly likes you too much. Run as far and as fast as your legs can take you. And do it before the poor chap gets a tattoo.
The tattoo part is where I get concerned for your safety, Shev.
I mean it, this sounds like a very bad situation getting drastically worse. That's not normal for a guy to want to get a tattoo of a woman AND her child, when he barely knows them on a personal level.
I would say if there ever was a situation that demanded you being direct with a person, this is it. And don't be afraid to do it over the phone. I understand that you're trying to salvage a friendship, but don't sacrifice your safety for your need to be accepting and caring of others.
Let him know that you are not interested in associating (use that word) with him any longer, that you don't feel safe with him, and that he needs to stay away from you and your child. If he doesn't take it well, I suggest filing a protection order at your county courthouse. You can fill out the paperwork with the clerk's office, and schedule the hearing in same day usually.
I know we've had discussions about keeping a stable environment for your daughter, but now we're talking about a safe environment. Drop me note about how this plays out.
I hear you. I was telling everyone in my family and friends as well that he's starting to scare me but, everyone thinks I'm overreacting. I was starting to feel like I was alone and maybe I was overreacting. thank you so much for your advice. - 4 months ago
Yeah, sounds very freaky! a tattoo of you and your daughter? Jee, Does he have 3 names? watch out, if the guy said "oh, you have my mom eyes". For sure he kill his old lady and chop her eyes for suvenir .
But the truth. It is very weird. Did he said, with all words, that he want something more then friendship with you? If he is really into these, I advise you to leaving little by little from his life, said that you are not prepared for a long term relatioship, you like him very much as a friend but nothing now, you want space, etc, etc (you girls are good in this), and fade from his life. But pay attention! don´t loose a friendship for wrong assumptions .
I think I am going to leave hislife because he's really starting to freak me out now. why is he so clingy? I never slept with him or wanted to hug him or anything like that? y is he acting like this? - 4 months ago
1st of all you need 2 stop him from gettin that tatoo as he is makin a big mistake. Then you need 2 tell him as far as I'm concerned the friendship has been lost. Friends can only b friends when there is nothin sexual between them and he has started 2 make it sexual and that fact you don't feel the same means ur friendship will never go back 2 the same after you tell him no matter how much you try so it is over.
I would freak out if a guy I'd known my whole life went got a tatoo of me on him never mind just a mate that didn't no that long. He does sound abit obsessed by you and you need 2 knock it in the head before things get worse and they will.
HE ALREADY GOT THE TATTOO!!! One day he called and said, "hi friend. I have a surprise for you." He said come to the door. I came to the door and he had me and my daughter's name on his arm. I was so freaked out, I almost cried. I don't know how to get out of this!! I've told him time and time again, I don't c him like that and he says he understands, but he keep doing these obsessive things and heep telling me he's in love with me! - 4 months ago
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It sounds like ur really stuck. I wouldn't know what 2 do probably best aviodin all contact even if ya can c if that works. Don't answer ur phone or ur front door 4 a couple of days. it's a real hard 1 because he is obsessed totally good luck whatever you decide 2 do - 4 months ago
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