We liked each other up until about a month ago (well apparently he stopped liking me and met someone else, but I still like him way too much, he didn't say it, I figured it out on my own). He stopped calling me every night like he used to. We only talked in that month when he lost interest like 3 times on Myspace IM. He was spending all his time talking on the phone with some girl he met on Myspace but has never met in person.
Suddenly one night recently he actually called me and stupid me answered and talked with him for almost 2 hrs. Next day we saw each other and talked for like 15 minutes all chill and fun. So I though maybe he likes me again?
Now he's back to being all cold and distant to me. I messaged him the other night and he just gave me blah replies and after 2 minutes stopped talking alltogether. The Myspace girl was online like she ALWAYS is.
What's his deal?!
Also should I be wary of the fact that I found out he does this alot.meets girls online and talks to them on the phone for hours until he meets another girl online. Usually 15-17 year olds and he's 22. I mean, why would he rather do that then be with me in real life? Even if he ever did meet her irl someday, she still lives like 2 hrs away and I'm basically next door.wtf.
Seems like he really wants a underage female, he is depseratly chasing little girls when he has a bonafide real woman who "lives basically next door".
You are available, he does like you, you like him back in the same way and the two of you connect and have great conversations. Should be a match made in heaven considering all the problems I read on this website between two people that reallllly like each other.
So what's the problem? He isn't as mature as you think he is, he is chasing a fantasy of having a 15 year old girlfreind because that is where he is at emotionaly.
To answer your last question: what is he ever did meet them in real life? he would probably get arrested because a lot of Police/FBI/detectives agents pose as young girls online to catch online pedephiles.
Technically/morally/LEGALY, your love interest is a pedophile. No normal 22 year old guy is going to want a physically/emotionaly/intelectually immature female over a 22 year old WOMAN, especially if that WOMAN is throwing all the signs at him and making it clear that she wants him as badly as you have made it clear.
Something is horribly wrong with your love interest, my advise is run for the hills while you have the chance, run so fast you create fire trails and bellowing smoke clouds in your wake!
P.S. you didn't tell us your exact age and I assumed you and him are the same age of 22. Doesn't matter though, you are18-24, an adult and so is he. - 4 months ago
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I'm 23 - 4 months ago
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Oh and thank you for answering, it makes sense what you say. - 4 months ago
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No problem, I know it is easy for me to sit back and tell you what I think since I am not emotionaly involed. I don't know exactly what you feel when you see him, I am sure it is all the good feelings but if you stand back and take a good look at the situation you'll realize that he has a great opportunity with you yet he sets you aside hoping to get a young(much too young) mate.
Doesn't make him look very good in my eyes. I hope you can erase him as soon as you can from your heart! - 4 months ago
Indeed, he is not even close to your normal level of maturity, and he's just a little horn dog! If you really like him (which I could clearly sense from the title xD), then I suggest you yell at him! Just like you did in this amazing title! I love it! You should really just show him how you feel and if he feels the same, or if he's just stringing you along.but if he's only talking to girls on myspace that are underage, then.he's just a a sicko.
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