Just out of curiosity if someone told you to leave them alone and to stay away from them, and you knew that at the time they said it they very upset would you think that they never wanted to see you again or that in time they would be back.
I know for me if I never wanted to see the person again ever in life I would tell as such.
I would say emotions are very dynamic. It is possible that some time way into the future he might change his mind. For the time being, try to respect him and stay clear. He might have just been on the defensive since he knew he was wrong to mislead you (or cheat depending on your understanding) . If I were you, I'd try to find another love interest.
If someone tells you to leave them alone, you better do it. Somehow, someway you are making things worse for them.
Doesn't mean that this person never wants to see you again its just right then they really don't want you around them for some reason. Seems logical and pretty straight foward.
I say go about your business, if they don't seek you out again you have not wasted your time OR made things turn out for the worse because you are not in their face making them deal with you.
Step out of the picture and hope things get better for this person you are talking about. If things get better MAYBE the two of you can talk about it. Actually if things get better the two of you need to talk about it, after all this person must have hurt your feelings and apparently this persons feelings were not good at the time they told you to "go away".
Like I said before, if this person doesn't seek you out again, you have spared yourself additional hurt feelings.
This was someone I was sleeping with for 4 years and found out he was sleeping with another woman. When I went to the job to speak to him he blew up on me and told me all those things. The stay away and leave me alone. I've tried contacting him a few times by way of email in the past 6 wks since this all happened and still haven't heard anything from him. Maybe the silence is his way of telling me were done and he doesn't want to see me again - 4 months ago
Yeah, in your case I would say you should probably listen and stay away, wait to see if he comes back or not. That'll show whether he meant it or not. But the idea of him just being defensive is good, that's possible too. I know when I'm mad/upset I want to tell people I hate them and to go away, but I hold my tongue because I know I probably don't really mean it. Basically, I think waiting it out would be best.
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