ok so some rumors went around the my ex was engaged and when I asked him about it he didn't know what I was talking about and I didn't know weather to believe him or not but then a couple days later he wanted to meet up wit me and we were drinking and when he gets enough alcohol in him he opens up and he sometimes even says things he shouldnt so anyways I asked him again about the engaged thing knowing this time I could get a truthful answer out of him and he said no it ain't true and he don't know where she's getting this from. so I said well you did ask me to marry you 4mths after we knew each other and he said well that's cause I knew there was something there. lately he said he's been enjoying the times weve been spending together and he's been bringing up a lot about when we 1st met so are these signs that maybe he's gonna wanna start over and do you think he still feels the same way about asking me to marry him? and the reason we split was cause of some probs. that we tried working on b4 but then went right back to it and we lost the communication really bad so we figured if we took some time apart maybe if we got back together wed b stronger and the only reason he's wit this other girl is he said cause when he's wit her it reminds him of how we used to b and I understand that a little cause that's how I used to b with our bestfriend which is a guy. but anyways like I said lately if somethings bothering him or he just wants someone to talk to he comes to me and not his new gf. and the other day he told me he's getting fed up with everyone cause to many people are tryin to start shit and he said he's gettin fed up wit her cause she's spreading a lot of lies and starting a lot of shit and I asked him who he was talking about and he said the cunt the bitch and I already knew who he was talkin about I just wanted to c if he'd say her name cause he won't say her name around me. so I really need some answers on these questions and hope I gave you enough info. so you can really help me out
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When: 4 months ago
Ok who cares if he is engaged? Unless you have feelings for him. Anyway, just believe him, you have no reason not to right? Time will reveal all the truth. Sounds like he doesn't really like her to me calling her all that stuff. IF you like him go for him. After all yall used to be best friends, so maybe yall could go slow back into a relationship? Sounds like yall had a connection since he said, he knew something was there. Anyway just believe him until you find out otherwise. There is really nothing else you can do.
Well like I said I'm pretty sure he's not lying to me about that but I need to know if you think he still feels the same way about something being there and if maybe there is a chance of him wanting to start over with him bringing up the good times and him telling me he's been enjoying the times weve been having. - 4 months ago
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Well he might there is a possiblity since he said he knew there was something there. I can't say for sure though because I am not him. I would just ask him where yall stand and how he feels about you. But ya if he talks about the good times he is having with you and all then there is a good chance. Esp. since he is slam talking the other girl. You just need to talk to him and see what's going on and try to decifer his feelings towards you and the other girl. Then go from there. - 4 months ago
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I guess I ll have to do that I just don't want him thinking I'm pressuring him but thanks you helped me out alot. - 4 months ago
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You're welcome. as long as you say it cool and casually I don't think you will be pressuring him esp. since he said those flirty comments and all. good luck!! :) - 4 months ago
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