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-- So he's come back. He misses a couple of days a week , but at least he shows up at school now! My little crush on him was starting to fade, but as soon as I saw him yesterday , everything just came back. He was walking infront of me, but it seemed like he didn't know it was me. He would move his head to the side, as if he was listening, every time I said something to my friend but he just kept walking , shoulders slouched and looking at everything but me. I got this urge to just yell "*his name*" but I didnt. I guess I should move on , since maybe in the 5 weeks he's been away , his "feelings" might have disappeared, but I can't help but wonder why there was constant staring from his friends and his brother while he was away. Not only that , his brother , who is usually a jerk to everyone seems less-jerkish around me. He doesn't make any smartass comments or anything. His friends are still staring , and a couple of them were listening to my conversations on his first day back! They even commented on my convo!
Just a little extra. I think something's terribly wrong. Firstly , he looks grumpy around me. He's been away for SO long , and he doesn't come outside much at lunch or recess. Even after school when he waits , he stays in the library. He used to catch the bus , but now his parents pick him up. Is he avoiding me? I mean , I haven't done anything tho.we don't even talk.
so - he's been away, it sounds like he's been sick & is still recovering.
here's some questions - do you know where he lives? when he was away did you try to find out why? *was* he sick? did you send a "get well card"? did you show any curiosity about why he was away?
perhaps he's grumpy around you because he hoped you might want to find out what had happened to him?
or perhaps he's grumpy because you haven't spoken to him since he came back?
keep in mind that he can't mind read, and guys are generally *terrible* at picking up on subtle cues. similarly, don't jump to conclusions that his current grumpiness or absence is directly related to you.
if you're keen on him, and concerned for his wellbeing (which you seem to be) - let him know! it doesn't have to be a big PDA, you could just start with something like "how are you feeling?" and maybe even move on to "i missed you while you were away" .
if talking to him directly is too tough, drop him a simple note, eg "glad to see you back", etc.
Sit with him. Talk to him. It seems like he still hasn't really recovered from the illness he had. He still obviously feels under the weather (to say the least). Maybe you can help him.get back in touch with everything. Just start talking to him. If he likes you he certainly won't blow you off. Just trust me. Try it. You can't go wrong.
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