I love my girlfriend a lot but I've noticed that most of her friends are guys. Most guys are after one thing and I know that a lot of her friends have had crushes on her. She says she always lets them know she has a boyfriend (when she meets new guys) but I know she cheated on her ex-boyfriend in the past. She says she really regrets it and would never do it again but I still don't trust the fact that she always makes friends mostly with guys. what should I do?
Well, either you trust her or you don't. Personally, a lot of my friends are guys. One had a crush on me for ages, another I had a crush on but he didn't like me back. But I have a boyfriend. You have to understand that there is a line between what is boyfriend and what is friend to a girl. She is around a lot of boys, but the fact that she calls you "boyfriend" means that you are in a different box, a different place than these guys. You are the one that she has labeled as her significant other (and vice versa), so you are separate in her mind. If she was going to mess around, would she even bother pretending to go steady with you? And yeah, so the guys might have crushes on her, but that's their business. If she's not acting on it, who cares?
No, don't worry at all. I only have one girl friend the rest are guys.My boyfriend worries as well but they are more like my brothers I don't see them as anything else. Some girls just don't get along with other girls. Mistakes happen and leave the past in the past. If she says she regrets it and won't do it again you have to trust her. Without trust your relationship means nothing. Maybe meeting the guys will help put you mind to rest.
I wouldn't believe her for a minute.she'll cheat on you with the first guy who spends enough money on her, without doubt.
Sorry to appear cynical but if she was really making things clear to these guys, they WOULDN"T be coming around this much! She's obviously telling them she only 'sort of' has a boyfriend, or something like that!
Of course the other guys have crushes on her. You really think guys just wnat to be friends with girls? Unless they are gay, they always want to be with the girls they are friends with.
Your girl could probably just likes to torture guys for sport. A lot of women that have guy friends do that. Especially if she's telling them all she has a boyfriend. these guys will do anything for their female friends because they are just pathetic losers that have no game and think nice behavior will give them attration points in the girl's eyes.
I mean I wouldn't worry too much about them, because they really aren't human beings. They're like lamps. When your girl needs some attention and you're not around, she'll turn them on for a little. Then when she's done with them, she goes back to you.
I personally don't like girls that have a lot of guy friends because to me it shows they are ignorant to the fact that all guys want to be with the girls they are friends with. Plus you know the guys are praying for your break up every day.
And plus do you really think a girl that has more guy friends then girl friends is normal? I mean look at guys. Guys that have more female friends that dude friends are f***ing wack. So to me girls that have a lot of guy friends have some issues.
So in the end, I would only accept it if the girl realized the guy is trying to get with her, but he has no spine, then I would be fine. But I'm not you. It depends how you feel about it.
I have a lot more guy friends then girl friends..A lot of them have girlfriends and I'm no atrracted to them nor would I ever do anything with them. I love to play sports and do guy stuff so it makes more sense to hang with guys. Girls can be prissy bitches. no offense to girls.sure I like to dress nice but things are more important in life then getting your nails done. SO I don't think I have issues cause I get along better with guys. - 4 months ago
I understand where you're coming from but some girls really are different. I mean, they're still girls but they just have different personalities and get along with guys really well. - A month ago
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