i been talking to this stripper on myspace since jan this year and we would send brief messages of meeting and I got his number and I would call him sometimes and he'll call me sometimes and we would try to meet up but he would never follow through so I was startin think that he just wasn't that interested in meeting. So months would go by, never had met yet, and we haven't talked. well I would call him and we would talk a little bit and finally 7 months later, 2 weeks from today, we finally meet up on a tursday night and we were and his car and I was the one askin all the questions. he said he wasn't used to dating and kind of shy so he doesn't talk much. And I just didn't really feel like we had chemistry and I hated that I would ask him questions andf he never ask me anything or if he does just one question. then it was just quiet a really. really, he just wasn't helpin keep the convo going. Well, he took me to a bar and he started opening up a little more, we were having deep meaningful conv's about everything. After that, you know it was real late and I wasn't ready to go hm so I ask we go to his place and watch movies. he said he lives wih someone and he sleeps on the couch and we couldn't really b comfortable so he told me that he usually rents a motel sometimes. do you believe that he would waste his money on a motel sometimes when he has a place to live? felt he was just trying to get me in bed and I was kind of curious how he was in bed so I wanted to. We got in watced some tv and layed in the bed and I was like lets go to slp cause really I didn't want to come off as easy by having sex with him the first night but my body just needed it and to have never had a stripper, I knew it would be sum good sex.Well, .he didn't do nothin for a long time and I wanted him too and he could tell so we ended up having sex. omg! there so into pleasin and go to extremes to satisfy you so I was right. after that, went to slp he held me and woke up the next day and he took me hm.
Now like I said, we really do not have chemistry and he is kind of boring but the sex was incredible and I was hopin that we'd have fun again. well, I would text him long text messages the next day and he responds hours later saying hey cutie. that's it. didn't even respond to what I said. thenm the next day he texts hey sexy. that's it. then I would text him something else and he wouldn't respond. next day, a whole day don' hear nothin from him. So I'm like he probably lost interest because I gave it to me on the first night and he just not into me. well, I left him a message about ok. I get it. I had fun then he calls and explains to me that he has shows all the time and gets calls all the time that he gets sick of his phone and that he goes to school 3 times a week just all these excuses.
And he was tellin me to just hang and there with him until he isn't so busy. that I'm rushing things but now its been 4 days after that convo and I heard nothing from him. what you think? he played me?
Not played you, but you probably rushed things in the first place. You showed him that you gave it all to him the first night, so what's left? If you got to know each other better, I think he would be missing you, not sex.
The motel thing is weird. I'd guess he lives with his girlfriend or maybe his wife. And if that's the case, yeah, he played you. He's clearly not that interested anyway. No matter how busy they are, when a guy really likes you they make time to call and stuff.
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