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Should I apologize?

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bananaking (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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There's a girl I like and I don't know if she likes me back in the way that I hope. but that's not the point. well, anyways. I called her last week on.Sunday? I asked her if she wanted to hang out on the weekend next week "labor day weekend" and she said yes. Later that week, she said she couldn't hang out, but could on monday. so I said monday sounded good. but the thing is, I did say yes to see her on monday, but we never made solid plans about when and where to meet and what to do, so when labor day came around, I didn't even speak to her. If she wanted to go, wouldn't she have called me or messaged me or something? or was she expecting me to make all the plans? or. Did I get her hopes up and leave her hanging like a douchebag? please answer

Update: thanks. I apologized and she was glad to hear it.    4 months ago

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crazyhorserocky
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crazyhorserocky (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
You should apologize for not making a detailed plan and then ask her to hang out with you again
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Jilbill212
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Jilbill212 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
Since you asked her you should of been the one to make the plans even if you just gave her ideas of what you guys could do together then let her pick. That would of been nice. Since you don't know how it affected her I would still be polite and call her and apologize. I mean what if she purposly didn't make plans that day so she could hang out with you then you left her hanging sorry but that is kind of rude but easily fixable. And about her messageing you she probably didn't wanna look like she was desperate or annoying.
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Saygoodnitenai
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Saygoodnitenai (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
if all these questions were lingering in your head monday .regardless of her not calling .you should have called her anyways just to clear things up and see what was going to happen if anything once you realized the two of you didn't make plans when you agreed on monday before. I believe you need to apologize for not calling or showing up. And let her know that she can call you as well and let her know you were waiting for her to call. I guess.
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
You don't need to apologize but she might like it if you act like a gentleman by apologizing. Just call her back again and make a good plan
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Shlei3
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Shlei3 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
You asked her if she wanted to spend time together. Therefore you should have been the one initiating the plans and contacting her. Because you didn't it makes you look kind of rude. I would apologize.
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kiroarous
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kiroarous (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
good move that you apologized, because now she knows that you respect her.
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