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Do I still keep doing this?

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blahblahblah (Age:Under 18)     When: 4 months ago
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I have been talking to this guy for what seems like forever, and we have talked about being serious but he lives far away so we just kinda kept things the way they were for like 3 months. Then we stopped talking for 2 weeks cause he was on vacation and I wasn't aware he didn't have his phone. I thought he was ignoring me. When he txt me when he got back I was very very surprised. Due to the fact that I thought he was ignoring me I had made out with 2 guys while we weren't talking. Of course I told him about this and he wasn't very upset. Then randomly the next day he told me he started talking to his ex again. Then 2 days later they were back together. He still wanted to be friends. Of course I said yes but I still have feelings for him. He basically told me that in 11th and 12th grade you are to young to be serious with someone which is bullshit because he was with his ex in 11th and 12th grade mean while he is just a freshman in college so what does he know. He told me that he wanted things to work out between us maybe eventually. I know there relationship won't last very long they are already fighting. So my question is do I keep talking to him even though he said that I was basically to young to be serious with someone. He confused me. Please help do I keep talking to him and hoping?HELP

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LeftEntails (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Honestly, you probably shouldn't keep hoping. Even if he does break up with his ex, he still lives far away. You're still going to have communication issues (like the ones you've already had). And it's VERY difficult to keep a relationship with someone in college when you're still in high school. Every single couple I know who has tried to do it eventually broke up. There are too many temptations, and a lack of communication that I mentioned earlier. You have different experiences and usually end up growing apart.

You can stay friends with him if you want - who knows, maybe it could work out once you're able to actually be around each other - but I'd say trying to be anything more than that with him right now is going to be a painful path.
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