Did you know that nice guys can be a total turn on for girls? That nice guys can be a turn on as hot as wild monkey sex?
For example.I knew this one guy, and at first, I didn't want to know him, I just saw chest hair and gold chain and I didn't want to know anymore other than.STAY AWAY! GROSS!
Then, since we both knew the same group of friends, I got to know him more since our friends always hung out together.
Girls told me how ugly this guy was.I just always saw him as normal looking. But I was still reluctant to give a chance to know him.
Then, one time, our friends met up a place where there was food, drink and whatever, hang out and stuff. And that guy was there and he was the hostess and he looked like he was just being himself, he kept asking me am I okay, would I want something to eat, please eat, are you thirsty? let me get it for you, what would you like? are you sure you are okay? Let me show you where everyone is sitting, and he introduced me to new ppl/friends and talked so I would get to know them and who they were.and again he kept making sure am I okay, is there anything he could get me.
From then on.I saw this guys in a whole different light.and I wanted him for myself.
Another guy I knew from work, kept talking to me time to time, sharing stuff that was from his personal life and not about work - what a relief that was to me! And he kept doing things for me.stuff he didn't have to do.and even when he was mod that day! (mod = manager on duty) .he kept speaking to me nicely and politely and never said no to me, never yelled at me or anything bad.he seemed so sweet.that I wanted to cook for him.homecooked (from scratch) meal (he never has food in his house and always eats out - yuck!) and fulfill all his sexual fantasies.
so.would you still rather be that 'bad ass' guy or be a nice guy?
Update: on that last part.you ever seen someone ride on those pretend bull machines? To show off they can ride a bull? Well.that's somewhat similar in how I wanted to ride on that guy from work.
4 months ago
I think what he means is the guys who puts on the air of a bad boy, but is really kind underneath--a rarity, but it happens - 4 months ago
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But why put on the air of a bad boy? he knows that wasn't what I liked in him :( - 4 months ago
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Question asker, you're offensive and close minded. Simply put. - 4 months ago
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But I'm asking to better understand - how is that closed minded? - 4 months ago
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To think that men can only have one of two personalities is offensive. It's silly to actually be confused at why a person isn't acting like a stereotype you have in your mind. It's common sense to realize that your stereotypes are wrong, and you need to talk to more men rather than think there are only two possible types of them - bad and good. - 4 months ago
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I apologize that I come across as ignorant and offensive, but that was not at all my intention. I have talked to many guys and for whatever reason, they all turned me away or away from me and I am wanting to understand why. - 4 months ago
Nice guys may finish last, but at least we can sleep with a clean conscience knowing that in the end we don't go away unappreciated. A word of caution though: some of these 'nice guys' can be manipulators that have perfected their game, while in reality are just looking for the 'one thing'.
See, this is why I love men--my brothas' you are evolving and still keeping your maleness--ya'll don't get the credit you deserve in this regard. I told my hubby, who is a real nice guy, nice guys don't finish last, if they remain nice, they finish best! - 4 months ago
I have to say the site of my man being a loving father,helping me clean up or just leaving the seat down is enough to turn me on--his consideration and care is what is most appealing--gusy who thinks most girls want assholes are missing he point--quality women will seek quality men--why chase after those who don't understand the true sexiness of a great man!
Why in the world would any girl want an asshole? that is crazy! whenever that coworker of mine was nice to me...like doing things he didn't have to do, but did them anyways for me....i loved it!..it just made me notice him...only! - 4 months ago
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I don't know girl--I always hated jerks, but I think some women think they are exciting or feel that if they were a real woman they can change him--who knows... - 4 months ago
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