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What would you think if your friend with benefits sent you this e-mail?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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"I got laid off today (no more job) and am now free to hang out ALL DAY. My parents get home from work at around 5:00 so if you want to come over to my house before then, we can hang out and stuff. I can collect unemployment insurance for 42 weeks at about 800 dollars a month so we can still go out to a movie or hang out at jack astors. Meanwhile. I need serious help with my resume. Do you feel like making a contribution?"

Update: Three really good answers and all very good perspectives.    4 months ago

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loveStruckBaby (Age:30 to 35)      When: 4 months ago
wow. here's what this email would say to ME:
1. I have no intention of looking for a job right away. I intend to collect unemployment for a year.
2. let's have sex while my parents are at work, even tho they are pretty much supporting me.
3. and by the way, I'm too lazy to learn how to write my own resume so you'll be helping me.

this guy is not worth your time. unless you don't mind being with a lazy guy that can't commit to you or a job hunt or moving out on his own for that matter. the fact that he already seems okay with the notion of collecting unemployment for 42 weeks is crazy. that's almost a year!

pay attention to this sister. this is a serious red flag. he doesn't seem to be ambitious for starters.
secondly, he's already using you for sex and now he wants you to be his personal secretary. and why is he saying his parents get home around 5pm? do you have to be out of there by the time they get home? or is he just saying "hey, we can have all the sex we want before they get home"? does he not want you to meet his parents? or is he going to "fake" looking for a job so you've gotta be out of there so they don't get suspicious? either way, the whole thing is shady.

i'm not sure what he knows about searching for a job but rest assured employers aren't too excited about hiring someone that starts looking for work after 5pm each day. I wouldn't hire anyone that contacted me after 10:30 am about a job - and I've hired my fair share of employees.

he even tips you off (at the end of his email) to the fact that he thinks of himself as a charity case "do you feel like making a contribution?" what is he, the united way? give me a break!

clearly he's not going to make much of a contribution- in terms of a relationship or in the work force. that's almost certain. ditch him.
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Shlei3 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
He wants you to help him with his resume and he wants to hang out with you.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Sounds to me like this guy doesn't see you in a just FWB way. I think he may have a lot stronger feelings for you but maybe he's scared of commitment. A FWB wouldn't insinuate that he's free to hang out with you all day or ask for help with his resume. He's trying to take things to another level with actions instead of saying it.
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