How would you react if someone didn't even try to talk to you or hold a conversation with you, because trying to start a conversation with "how are you?" or "how's it going?" is as they put it "lame" do I have to say something exciting and entertaining just to have a conversation with them? and if so what should I start off saing? by the way it's one person, everyone else will have a really good and or interesting conversation with me, except her. Suggestions, insight, and or advice is welcome.
well then to me she sounds like she isn't a nice person. does she know you like her? to start a convo just be like you:heyy her:hi you:how are you her:good. you:yeah that's good! you:how has your day been? her:good. you:awesome. you:got anything planned for the weekend?
iv done that with a guy before when he never used to tlk to me and we dated for a few months, but that was awhile ago. hope hat might help ya xx
Tried that too, it seems like nothing short of shock (I mean the kind sites like this ban for) get her to start a convo and that's only because she's like "wtf!?" and it starts up a convo, but she knows how I feel about her, and she says she's only doing it because she's pushing e away, she doesn't want to but can't help it, a fairly long story behind the whole thing if you wanna hear it and think you can help, I'd greatly appreciate it =) - 4 months ago
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Sure. id love to hear it. I'm new to this site so I'm not sure exactly what you can do but if yu can message me on here and tell me or email me or whatever (: xxx - 4 months ago
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Kk I'll message you, and thank you in advance. - 4 months ago
hey I'm chloe =] i reckon if yu have intrest in her like if yu are crushing on her and she is jst ignoring you or whatever just be like. oi seirously I'm just trying to be nice and start a conversation and I can tell you don't want to hold it. if you don't want to talk to me tell me, or if you want to talk about something interesting well then you can help the convo out and you start it. hope I help :S
Tried that more than once, she just gets mad at me and says "you know I hardly ever even say hi first, I don't know what to talk about) that's right yet she'll criticize how I try to start up a conversation with her... I don't know what to do =/ - 4 months ago
I feel the pain man. When I come across these girls, I just think of anything outrageous or ridiculous to say depending on the place, what the girl is wearing, etc I've been known for makng stuff up and just playing along as if really happend. Anyway, so instead of the common hi, how re you, you could try some funky lines that you think are appropriate for the situation. Stuff I've said in the past was something like
Goodness, that's a mighty outfit you got on---didn't know it was halloween. Lord have mercy! I hear some loud thunder and then I realized it was you walking by. So I hear you love to go clubbing to shake it and bake it, when are you taking me out for a cook out? Well look at you! Didn't know it was the miss universe contest today!
Again though, these starting conversations worked for me because I can just make fun of anything, I do talk a lot crap, and I can flow with the punches; most of the times the girls found me funny; so if you're snappy and creative, maybe you can try a similar approach instead of going for the standard linesof hi, how are you, etc. Cause yea, that's kind of boring.
Thank you, I am creative and used to do that with nearly everyone I'd meet (I was bored) I'm not so sure how that'd work out but I'll try it, thank you for the answer. - 4 months ago
I think she might be telling you to go away. What makes you think this is only a matter of poor choice of words?
I highly doubt walking up to her and saying, "Do you find emotional connection through poetry" is going to make her instantly initiate conversation and divulge information.
Well actually it's someone on the net, and because she told me she'd respond if I had something interesting to say, I'm guessing she's just immature and has to have action in everything she hears, so I'm curious what an exciting greeting might be. - 4 months ago
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I don't know if that would make her immature. But, something like I said, about the poetry, might be a more direct approach as opposed to just, "Hey. What's up?". - 4 months ago
Question Asker
Well, I have known her for awhile now, and talked to her a lot already, so it's more like different kinds of greetings I could use each timme for something new each time. - 4 months ago
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Howdy Greetings Good afternoon, good morning, good evening
Or you can just start a conversation and ignore the greeting part. Just go right into it and say, "So I got busted stealing icecream from little kids yesterday, wild, huh?" - 4 months ago
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Lol, I think the last one is most likely to get a conversation going with her, but I'm no criminal, thank youu for the answers =) - 4 months ago
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