A co worker gave me their business card by putting it in my front shirt pocket (I'm a waiter). She wants to cover a shift of mine. I get home and I put the card on the counter and leave to pick up my wife. When we get home, I take her jacket and put it on the counter, covering the card. I see it was covered and pull it out and explain to my wife the circumstance. She flips out and walks out the house, asking why was I trying to cover the woman's business card and why she put it in my front pocket. She ends up sleeping at her friends house that night. She wouldn't answer my calls. Now I'm at work and I do not know where she is and she answers all my questions with mumble. I love my wife very much and I would never cheat, let alone even think about it. She's pregnant with my 1st child. How do I handle the situation?
Wow. Well, she's pregnant, so naturally a woman's hormones are all over the place, thus making her sensitive to just about anything. If she's like most of us are, she's probably had the thoughts of "I'm getting big and fat and ugly and I feel awful--my husband won't be attracted to me anymore!" which is a sad thing because few things are more beautiful than a lady carrying the child of the husband who loves her and cherishes her.
Whatever you do or she does, stay calm. She's probably upset enough for the two of you. Be steady, be by her side as you have been.
And by all means, do all you can to steer clear of that coworker, for that was a personal-space move on her part so it sounds to me like she' s trying to flirt or something. Don't even entertain the thought in your head! If you do, she'll (coworker) pick up on it. If she becomes brazen or gets in your personal space bubble, let it clearly be known to her about that wife of yours whom you love so very much and would never cheat on.
I think your wife will be fine. Being pregnant--especially for the first time--makes a lady jumpy anyway. Flowers and a nice dinner and a foot rub etc. couldn't hurt, though, even when she's not miffed at you. ;-)
1. You shouldn't have told her about the putting it in your shirt pocket. What was the point? 2. Bring her flowers, do something romantic for her to show her how much you care. 3. I don't think she is going to leave you. She is just upset (rightly so) so give her time to cool down/off. Esp. since she is carrying your first child, she wouldn't leave you for that. 4. Be careful with that co-worker. She seems to be after you. Who does that pocket thing? It's kindof flirty to me at least. 5. Tell her how much you love her and how much she means to you and that you would NEVER cheat on her. That she is the only one for you. 6. Send her a text saying like I love you or thinking about you or somtehing! 7. After you give her time to cool down, call her and tell her you are sorry and was just being honest. Tell her it was nothing and explain the situation/circumstance.
I really think she will get over it once you give her some time. She will come around.
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