think it's okay to say if a girl is hot or make it clear he's looking at another girl infront of his girlfriend?
Me and my guy talked about it because he was saying he like mariah carey. I told him it doesn't bother me about celebs but normal girls yes as he could easily go with them and its disrespecting me totally.
well one night we go out drinking and he kept asking for a threesome and asking who we could have one with, I'm all up for a laugh and don't mind going along and saying oo yea sure, messing around but when I tell him that no, we won't be having one and make it clear that the fun's over as it's getting to me he still carried on. the next day he said he wouldn't do anything or go with anyone else after I told him he'd gone to far. he said he didn't realise he'd gone to far.
well we fell out the other day (long story but not 2 do with girls, just he has a few things needed to be sorted and he was forgetting me, not texting or calling or answering my calls - this was going on for just over a week!) I said I wanted to cool it with him until he sorts himself out. we all go out drink that same day, and he ignores me at the start and is staring at this girl, he then goes up to her and says something then walks off. to which I went up and said to him 'gotten over me quick have you' and he replied 'don't be stupid'. he then stopped flirting and looking at other girls, yet carried on not talking to me, it wasn't until an hour later did he start talking to me properly, acting normal with me, joking and messing like we did when we we're together. well, I had to go back to his as I was taking his brother, my cuzn and him home. he told me I was staying and when I asked him why he wanted me to stay he said 'because I like you', and all on the way back in the car he was telling me 'i love ya 2 bits' over and over.
Well we talked 2day online and I told him that it makes ya feel ugly and small and its disrespectful to flirt and look at others when your girls in the room (even though we wern't offically 2getha at that point) and he said 'if you put it like that then it was wrong,sorry x'
well we're basically back together, after our fall out. I just want to know why guys think its okay to use other girls to get back at their own or think its okay to look even though their with someone.
was him flirting with this girl a cheap way at getting me to admit I didn't want to cool it with him yet and a way for him to test my feelings, or was it him showing if I didn't want him he could get easily get someone else.
Actually, with what limited experience I have in dating, so far, I seem to be a guy who just naturally loses interest in women as far as looks. Now I can say that someone is an attractive woman, to be kind, but so far I haven't had any temptation to look at any other women.
So not all men do this. It's rare, I think a lot of guys, yes, even men do this, sometimes even unintentionally; but then I think most girls will do this and be more blatant about it; but a lot of women have an issue with this too.
Don't stereotype all guys, because not all guys do this.
Why was your boyfriend doing this? Who knows? Maybe that's his problem. His cross to bare may be "lusting." The thing is, you need to get to a point where either you can handle this, he can make an honest effort not to do this (though he may slip), or you will have to leave him.
It doesn't mean he will cheat, but it may be a worthy red flag; something to watch out for. Either he needs to make an honest effort to stop (don't try to trap him though), or you need to get out before it gets to be an even bigger problem. Or, you trust him, and you pick your battles.
My question to you would be, why do girls stay with guys like that? is it because they have a low self esteem and they think they can't find another guy? Or is it because all you can get is this type of irrespectful guy?
The guys that do this type of behavior are typically the immature guys that obviously have no respect for you. Why stay with such a guy? Dump him and find one that respects you because is very obvious that this one doesn't. And yes, I wouldn't do that in front of my gf; my married male friends wouldn't either, so again, it depends on the maturity of the guy. But of course, what mature girl would stay with such guy?
not all guys do that sum of them they do it to improve an idea that you're not the only one who want a piece of him and he's super attractive and irresistible to girls . a guy like this he's not worth it because he don't respect the feelings for his girl how can he take care of her in the future .
I can't help thinking that you can do better than a guy who pants after pictures of female celebs. In the first place they are usually retouched and don't even resemble reality.at least reality without lots of makeup.in the second place, it's downright WEIRD to stare at pictures when you have a REAL woman at your side.
I believe- and this is just my opinion, that it is ok to look. Unfortunately, it is just human nature to look.and that's just it- IT'S ONLY LOOKING! Besides, we girls must admit we look too. What I do disagree with however is when it gets to a disrespectful pinicle to where the girlfriend/boyfriend decides to broadcast inapropiate comments and gestures on the issue. How is that showing any courtesy or respect to the one you love? How is it showing the one you love that you love them? Lets be realistic. Looking is going to happen, but the overdone comments can casue issues in a relationship, make the boyfriend/girlfriend feel insignificantly less than the girl or guy being guaked at, and lead to jealousy issues and arguments. I say- it is ok to look as long as we don't touch, and that we respect those we are with by biting our tongues from the inappropriate commentary.
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