idk what category this belongs in. but I know a lot of girls talk about "looking into their guys eyes: and stuff and how romantic/sexy it is. but I freak out when I make eye contact with anyone for more then a few seconds, even if its my boyfriend of almost 6 months. we'll be talking and I'll keep looking down or something, every time I look up he's looking into my eyes. I try to hold his stare for a few minutes but Its like I start panicing or something, I really don't know why, it just feels beyond awkward and almost intrusive. I worry that my boyfriend thinks I don't love him or that I'm lying to him or something when I cant. does anyone else have this problem? not just that you don't like staring into peoples eyes, but its almost mentally impossible for you to maintain eye contact with the person that means more then anything to you? or is this not a big deal at all.
I think it comes with age sweetie. I was shy when I was younger, and could never look my man in the eye.
As I've gotten (much) older, I have realized how absolutely intimate it is, what an incredible turn on it is to look your man dead in the eye when kissing, engaging in foreplay, or making love. I especially love to have my man stare me in the eyes when I am giving him oral sex. I like to watch his reaction, and I want him to know that I am completely enjoying myself and that I LOVE to have him in my mouth.
Men want to feel wanted, and they want to know that you are enjoying making them feel good. Men want to know that they are making you feel good.they want and need the confirmation. I love to look my man in the eye, and even make noises that let him know just how incredible the closeness we share is.
Thanks, hopefully I'll be more confident eventually. that's another thing I'm worried about, if/when my boyfriend and I start getting intimate, I know that I won't be able to look into his eyes while we are doing anything, but what else am I supposed to do? even when we are making out and he is on top feeling me up or something, as much as I love it, I have to look at his hands or something, because I just can't look at him in the eyes. do you think he is offended by this? - 4 months ago
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YW..I don't think he is upset that you can't look him in the eyes. I do feel however that you should be open with him and let him know that although you like him very much, you are just shy. Let him know that you feel uncomfortable lookin him in the eyes. What helped me was a man who would hold my hands, or even cup my face in his hands as he kissed me, he would say "look at me", then he would kiss my nose or my eyes..he made me very comfortable. He would smile as I giggled, but he was patient. - 4 months ago
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