I've been seeing this girl for about 3 years. Its been a bit off and on. For the most part on though. We get along great our kids get along good,as well as kids do.
For some reason I keep getting this feeling that things just aren't right though. She has a border that she shares her house with. A guy that she keeps telling me is just a friend. She even asked me it was ok I he moved in. I told I was good with it. Cause she needed the extra money to make ends meet. Now some time later I feel jealous that he's there. He buys things for her and not just little stuff ,some pretty big ticket items. She doesn't refuse them he's just a nice guy that likes doing nice things. We went to a party some time ago and later I found out that he was telling some of the guys there that he had actually had something going on with my girlfriend. One of the people that heard this conversation,had told her what was said. She told me that she confronted him. He responded that he may have said something but he was drunk and just showing off. Of course I believe her I'm trusting guy.
Now I just had a birthday past and I didn't even get a card from my girlfriend. Although we did spend the weekend together away and I picked up the entire tab we had a good time. I realise that money is tight cause she's in school and tiring to support a family. But common not even a card! Then her sons birthday is a week behind mine and the guy goes and gives her money for a gift for his birthday. I asked her what was up she said she couldn't ask for money for a gift for me but it was ok to ask for her son. Now tomorrow is her daughters Bday and again a big gift shows up from this guy. Should I suspect anything is going on when I'm not there? She plays like she doesn't like him around when she talks to me. But she says she needs him there to make ends meet.
I guess I'm just confused She says she loves me and I love her to but My gut is saying Whoa
Your gut is always right. I'm gonna say something whether it sounds too harsh.the reality is that if she really wanted to, she would do anything to make you feel comfortable and secure about the relationship. By this I mean kicking that guy out, and finding someone else to help her make ends meat. If she really cares about the relationship with you, she wouldn't want you to ever get the wrong impression of her and somebody else. That guy would have been outta there in a flash. I'm gonna suggest that you, take the initiative and help her find someone else to live with her, because apparently this guy is only causing problems (especially after he talked about her to his friends in a bar). Even if after you have helped her find a new roomate, she refuses to have that guy out then it's time to kick her to the curb. You sound like a great guy and you deserve a birthday card and the same kind of love in return.
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