After coffee with an ex last week, we again were flirting to the point of getting together soon I think for some fun...He told me he is not really into quickies, but why not? I have never heard a guy say that. Why would he not be into a quickie? Does he want to date again? He is extremely shy... I do not know what to think...We dated for two months, broke up cause he was not ready for anything serious. We did not talk for about six weeks, now we email every other day, met for coffee next week and now he may come over, although he is not into quickies...
Update: I went back and looked at his email he sent about maybe getting together. He said that he has never been a fan of quickies, but why not, as in why not this time... He said that I started it this time, with our routine daily teasing of each other...
More than a year ago
Update: We have not had a chance to see each other. I have received a couple of nice emails stating he holds our friendship close to his heart and that he wanted me to know that. He is glad we met and that we have a comfortable/friendly relationship.
More than a year ago
veryoffensive
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
"I'm not into quickies" translation: "I'd feel guilty if we had sex again and weren't dating or I'd feel obligated to start dating you but don't really want to and I don't have the guts to say it"
If you really just want a quickie from him yourself, assuage his fears and tell him you'd expect him to get up and leave after sex. see what he does :D
Genesis5
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
That could mean a lot of things, and the best thing to do would ask him why he is not into quickies.
But it could just mean, that he does not like quickies,... perhaps that is the way he gets down,... some guys like to keep playing once they get started.
ladygator81
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
Sounds like he might have something else going on and that he is not comfortable doing things on the side, or that perhaps he hasn't made up his mind about being in a relationship. I would hold off being intimate, or just ask him when he comes over what's his deal about quickies.
Just ask him what he really means. Don't make any assumptions--sounds like he's probably an honest person, so just ask. And if the answer is unclear, keep listening until you're both on the same page. Good Luck. - More than a year ago
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