I have been interested in this girl (Steph) for about 3 months. She works at a bar I go to a lot. For the first month we talk with a bar between us. I am really shy so asking her number was a big step for me. Plus I am intimidated by her because she always has guys hitting on her. This last October I got her number and we texted each other a lot. Well about two weeks into it I asked her out, but she would always say she is busy and what not. Then, I chilled out on going in there for a week.
On Halloween she texted me to come up to the bar to hangout we got drunk and enjoyed our company and she kissed me on the cheek before she left. Moving into November we discuss things about our relationship and like the fact that she does want a boyfriend. So is it ok for me to be asking her what she wants? Should I just let things unfold or try and unfold them?
I think you should pace yourself so that not only do you not look too keen on her but also protect yourself from falling too quickly. It's important that you show her that you like her - but also make her realise that if she isn't going to jump at the chance of being with you - then you can easily move on to someone else.
Never give other people the power to decide what type of relationship you'll end up being in. Don't push - but keep your pride. If she just wants to be friends and you don't then you need to move forward so that you're not her little puppy dog. Having said this - don't push things too quickly because she may just want a chance to get to know you before she moves to the next step.
I would just let the relationship unfold, and see what happens. It obvious she wants to go slow (probably from getting hit on all the time), or has had a bad relationship she needs to get over. Give her time, and take it slow and easy!
Just let things go from here. If it's going to happen then it will happen. Don't scare her off by getting too jealous and stuff like that. working at a bar she makes a lot from tips because she probably flirts back a little. Show her that doesn't bother you and I'm sure things will work out for the best.
I wouldn't try going so fast, it's like opening a flower of which hasn't fully blossomed. You might do more harm then good to the flower by opening it early. I'd suggest taking it easy for a while!
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