alright, when it comes to relationships, I'm either one of two extremes: I'm really submissive, or I'm extremely possessive. I don't know why I'm like this, but I just am. what is a good way to find a place in the middle so I'm not taken advantage of, or I don't scare people off?
You need to set your own rules. It's not okay to be taken advantage of, and it's not okay for you to take advantage of someone else, so if you follow those two rules you should stay in the middle.
Unless you've had some mental or physical trauma, or have some kind of disorder, I think how you act in a relationship (submissive or possessive) could just be your personality.
Yeah, like I have a really quirky and odd personality that consists of these two extremes all the time, and I try to find a middle ground, but it's hard. but thanks for the advice!! - A month ago
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Glad I could help. - A month ago
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