Does this happen with everyone with a FWB?

Well, I can give you one piece of advice. Men are sex hungry. I know for a fact because I am as well. I have lied to a girl and said that I liked her and was not ready for a relationship, JUST so I could be FWB. I have no idea if he is doing the same or not but I am just throwing that out on the table. I don't think the shirts really mean anything too special. Just letting you borrow some clothing or maybe just as a gift. Just tell him how you feel and what you want. Anything can happen but you don't want to be that girl that gets attached to a guy from FWB and have the guy freak out because he doesn't feel the same way, right? If you don't think he likes you back then I don't think you should let him have anything, so to speak. He could just be using you. I do not know for sure though. Good luck.

I'd tell him straight. I'd avoid sounding pushy or demanding, but wouldn't be limp about it either. Look him in the eye, tell him that you're falling for him and ask if he'd like an exclusive relationship. You might find he's keen, especially if he's eager to spend more time with you.

On the other hand, I wouldn't read too much into gestures like giving you clothing. I lend my mates awesome shirts to wear all the time. Means nothing ;) Really, though, best to hear it straight rather than speculating.

Good luck :)

Seems like more than just casual sex.maybe you two can make something out of this.dont so pushy about it but don't be too laid back either.i'd say go for it.and if he doesn't feel otherwise then don't have sex with him because if you do. your feelings will get stronger and if he doesn't want that then things are going to get messy =]

possible, regarding the T-shirts. It's hard to tell. But at this point you have nothing to lose. Say you have feelings for him. If he just sits there, then you know it's not worth your time and if he says he does too, then say, "I want to be with you."

OMG MY SWEEIE, I AM GOING THRU THE EXACT SAME THING.EXACTLY. ok so I had a friends with benefits that started off as dating which after 7 months I caught feelings for. He also said he didn't want a girlfriend right now, but really cared about me alot. We had a falling out and I really went off on him out of jealously and anger because I had asked him if he was sleeping with another female and " and he said if the opportunity arises he won't turn it down, but he isn't out looking for females".we ended up talking about it he told me a relationship takes time and devotion and he is not ready for it right now. He wants to be selfish and just concentrate on himself.anyways enough about my situation let me relate it to yours now.i don't have much detail on the extent of the relationship. YOu gotta give me more information: Does he cuddle with you after being intimate? Does he take you out? Does he call even when not in the mood? Does he call you when you have been a bitch to him? Does he talk to you about his life, goals, aspirations, and give you more details about who he is? If you answer yes to most of these questions then he probably cares about you. If not, you are not that significant in his life. My intuition tells me that guys do this because they want to play around, yes test the waters and see what's out there.they don't want to jump into anything.if they jump into a relationship they want it to be worth giving up all the women they are with or can potentially be with. So I suggest just sitting down and telling him how you feel? he may feel the same about you. If he doesn't don't feel bad. However, there is not really much significance in the clothing.I wouldn't make him my priority though. I am actually taking the time to concentrate on more important things in my life, my future. I personally feel like I make my significant others too much of a priority and I need concentrate on making myself happy for once. I am researching going back to school for dental hygiene. Just tell him how you feel, see if he feels the same way.if not you can stil talk to him but concentrate on yourself and making yourself a better person.so your heart isn't broken in the end.if he cares he'll come around and want you in his life.if not its his loss lol

The clothing thing is weird to me.like, were you sleeping together and he gave you a shirt as nightwear? Or did he just give you his clothes? Odd lol. Friends with benefits never works. Let him know how you feel. If he doesn't feel the same, don't continue to hook up with him. It will make it harder on you in the long run.

The clothing thing I don't consider to be very significant! But about you letting him know how you feel there is no better way than to come right out and say it! beating around the bush or hinting may give off the wrong impression, or be taken the wrong way! And a little advice for the future FWB never end well! either the two become an item which I guess is kinda well but not very often, or the one developes feelings and the other does not! so a lot of hurt on one side! but just so you know! I'm not discuraging you from talking to him!