Ok me and my ex recently talked about getting back together. I love him very much and want to but he has told me he wants to do good in school at the moment to graduate and all and said if you wait six months then things will be good again. Well I can wait six months but it is just so hard for me because all of our friends say that me and him seem like we are going out but really aren't.
We hang out alot and he kisses me goodnight and we are still intimate I'm just afraid that he is leading me on and when the six months is up he will be like oh, sorry I don't want you anymore. And right now I know we aren't a couple even though we act like it. He receives pictures from other girls and such and I don't like that.
I love him so much and will do anything to have him back in my life more then he is now. I'm just so confused and scared. help...
PureFury
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
If you guys are acting like boyfriend and girlfriend and being intimate and kissing and hanging out, then what does school have to do with it? You guys are basically together in everything but title and if you adopt that title then he's not going to lose any time for studying.
What I mean is he's already spending all this time with you and focusing on school at the same time so why would calling you his girlfriend affect that? It sounds like he's keeping his options open so that he can receive pictures from girls without giving you the right to be angry with him for it.