A boy sent me his number through a friend at a party, I call him and we had a nice conversation. He lives in a city near mine and he told me he could come once a week and get together for a drink and talk. 3 days have passed since that, should I call him again? Just to say hi, and have some conversation?
Update: Thanks to the girls who answered, I'm still waiting for his call, I would like to have some guys opinion, I mean he really sounded very serious about coming to town and get together. Thanks.
11 months ago
Ok, this one always trips a girl up. Understand this:
When a woman says "I'll call you", she means as soon as she gets home tonight, or the very next day.
When a man says "I'll call you", he means before he dies.
Now, I don't mean this in a bad way. It's a perception thing. It's like kinda like sex-in-reverse...when a guy says he's horny, well that's like always...so what? When a woman actually says this out loud, she's probably hotter than a phoenix in July at that moment.
Woman are much better verbal and visual communicators than men. I would say that over 80% of men don't communicate well over the phone -- especially when the person on the other end of it is a woman. Try e-mailing your guy, if you know. Maybe even an accidental personal visit, as long as you don't come on too strong. You may notice some very different results.
iloveyou
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
I'd wait a little bit. You don't want to seem desperate. Sometimes people get the wrong impression and think a person calling them always means they're desperate. I hear it from people all the time. Like: "He called me... again! He's so obsessed..." or "Why does she have to keep calling me?" Be more desirable by not calling him. It'll make him want to call you if he really is interested.
Never chase a guy, because sometimes when they know they've got you hooked they'll lose interest and it's not a fun experience. Good luck! And remember, we're just giving you advice on here. If you really want to call him, then go ahead. There's no right or wrong choice. It's your choice that matters. =)