Do you girls care if I smoke? If yes, how can I try to avoid the situation? And please don't answer 'stop smoking' I want a solution because its a real problem for me
as a girl, I first thought a guy who smokes is hot, because it makes them look bad-ass, daring and ruthless.but the bad part is those turn-ons are only temporary.
after seeing this one guy I liked smoke a lot, I began to be turned off.bc it makes you weak. You're so stressed out, or so drawn to peer pressure, or whatever the reason it was that got you to start smoking it just throws off that confidence a girl melts over and makes you a weak person. Bc now you're relying on this manmade money-wasting environmental-damaging piece of shit that calms you down temporarily burning out ur brain and lung cells.
with that said, it also gets worse.bc girls, when they like a guy, they think long term and want committment. They go so far into dreaming about that guy that they think of kissing them, marrying them, having sex with them, having his babies! So now think for a minute, if a girl really likes you, do you think shed be tempted to kiss you? when your breath stinks, your clothes and wills he even be attracted to you, when your hair starts falling out or wrinkles appear on your face? and, smoking has a horrible effect on reproductive health, men who smoke damage the production of sperm and even withthe little sperm produced, damages to the cells can cause birth defects due to weak sperm.even worse, smoking causes earlier stages of impotency.when you get married ur sex life is gonna die sooner than expected.and lets say you have kids, ur gonna be smoking around those kids cauing second-hand smoking theyre gonnna be harmed now.
so.a girl.whose dream is to find the guy of her dreams, get married have kids, do you really think smoking isn't gonna make a big difference?
if you reallly liked this girl and cared about her saw a future with her, ud give it up not just for her but for yourself.
I personally won't be bothered by it too much, once you don't smoke up in my face all the time, and once I don't have to compete for your attention with a cigarette! LOL!
Well, I care if a man smokes. Actually I wouldn't date a smoker. I guess you could make sure to excuse yourself and smoke outside when you're with her and then use a mint or chew some gum. But we can still smell it on your clothes which can be a big turn off. I won't tell you to stop smoking but don't be surprised if you hear it from your girlfriend.
before I started smoking cigs it never ever bugged me that a guy I was with smoked. some girls aren't like me though and get totally turned off by it and some times won't even look at a guy at a bar if he he's smoking.
so my best advice if your unable to quit is to just cut down or don't smoke socially maybe just when your home and make sure you always have gum and hand sanitizer and cologne just incase.
if you really want to quit I hear that if you chew seeds every time you think you want a cig it helps. or just finding something to get your mind off of it.
good luck I know first hand its either a hit or miss with people and unfortunatly we get judged a lot by them.
p.s. if you meet a girl who doesn't approve DONT LIE ABOUT IT! that's 10 times worse than just smoking
Thanks for helping, I'm not lucky enough to find a girl who smokes... and my friends doesn't approve so and I'm like ''omg help'' I'll try the gum thing, but I think that will be hard to stop smoking socially :( - 11 months ago
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