In this state for about 1 and a half yr. Refused to give him sex fearing he may leave me for good after sex. He did ask a few times but once I said no, he then kiss me on the forehead and we'll get to sleep. We love to sleep naked and he always never fails to hug me to sleep, a goodnight kiss and he really hug me tight. But I am not sure of his feelings towards me. and when I asked about some guys he's jealous and instead will asked me back, why do you have to talk about him. in the first place it was also him wanting to be friends a year back. what is all this behavior? He feels something special between us or he merely treats me as a friend?
when friends are around,sometimes its either both of us act like strangers or we fool around n flirt. but he nvr says he likes me to his guy friends instead he would always tell the guy friends that he doesn't like me at all and that i'm irritating. when my parents were overseas once, he bought me food and brings it to my house when I asked him to. He always know I love him even when I denied (im afraid. and do not have an idea what am I afraid of). He did ask me to be his gf,asking me if I still feels the same towards him but I denied. there's once, he said he feels that he likes me, but I don't find it convincing and am afraid getting hurt by him again. He used to treat me rudely but not anymore. And it's so hard for me to finally forged this kind of bond between us. He cares but do not shows easily.
we give affections and really physical intimacy but I refused sex. as you know, he's got a history of cheating girls and getting them f***ed. but I'm the only one so far that he still really keep in contact. he's not just after sex is that it? it's been 1 year plus? or does he treats me just as a possession since I've liked him for almost 6 years? thanks for your answers.
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I don't get the question. So you're under 18, have a guy you've been sleeping naked with but not had sex with, who has cheated on other girls in the past, who doesn't show affection easily, and who tells his friends that he doesn't like you and that you're irritating? If I understand correctly, then my response has to be, yes he's only interested in the sex. That's why he's hanging around while also telling folks he doesn't like you. To me, that's a deal-breaker.
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When: 11 months ago
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