Hello. I have a huge crush on a guy my step dad works with. This guy is a few yrs older than I am, he's 23. We get along perfectly. Its just that he hasn't opened up to me about his feelings sense I confronted him with mine. Im not really worried I just don't know how to give him a little push in the right way to get him going. My parents love him and have made it clear, (without being too obvious) that they definitely approve.
He's such a sweet man. Hes shy, so I understand that about him, but he's not too shy to hold back how he feels usually. when were alone, he doesn't change much, I can just feel his wall come down a little bit. Haha I dunno, maybe I should wait a lil longer but its been like 4 months. I really care about him, and could seriously see myself in love with him someday....but I don't feel like I should have to put my life on hold for him to just come forward and take me up on that date he promised me.....hehe thanks you guys. MUAH! ~Megan
Just be patient, and let the relationship develop. Four months together isn't really that long of a time together. Don't put your life on hold; just go with your plans for school, and keep talking to this guy. If he's shy like you said, he may want to go a little slow, anyway. Just don't push him too hard; he may not be ready for that, and you will spoil what you have now. Take it slow, and continue to let hem know you're interested in him. If he wants to go further, he will pursue you, too! Again, give the relationship time to develop.
Hey Megan -- you don't have to put your life on hold for something that you're not positive is a sure thing to begin with. Give him a little competition -- if there is another man that is interested that asks you out to dinner, take him up on the offer. You've already told this other man how you feel about him and he hasn't come forward...he knows you're interested but might think your giving in a little too much, too quickly (from my experience they seem to scare quite easily!!!) and that scares him.
I wouldn't stop pursuing him, but I would explore other options...That might be the push he needs!!! Good Luck, girl!!! I hope everything works out!
Yeah I did try that. there's a guy who likes me and asked me on a date so I went, from what I found out the guy I like isn't too happy about that. so he now knows I'm not gonna stop my world from spinning waiting for him, so hopefully he'll make a move. TY!! - 11 months ago
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