Ok I get the whole men are from mars stuff about needing space. But when he comes back is my issue....after 2 months ... what the hell could I possibly say that wouldn't be to vicious to say hey while I understand it. It was utterly disrespect to not give me a heads up. And I am sorry there is no chance for us to be anything other than maybe friends ....?
Honestly I don't know why he did it. I don't have time to try to try to figure that out. and well he's not talking . he just disappeared no one has seen him in 2 months other than driving by. he normally sticks his head in the sand when he feels the need. - 11 months ago
Huh? I don't understand your question. Are you asking if it is okay that he left for 2 months?
Why would you want to be friends with someone who flakes on you like that? I would cut off all ties with this guy and never talk to him again. He obviously doesn't care about your feelings if he leaves like that for an extended period of time.
Well the basic idea of the question is I know that he will be back here soon...and I am just trying to figure out a nice way to handle the situation without being too mean about it. before lovers we were friends for 2 years. - 11 months ago
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It's the fact he didn't tell me anything, ignored texts and calls, etc. like he never even knew me. which is cool I guess. that's the way you want to play it. but I'm trying to figure out how to say what I want to say without being mean to the male ego. - 11 months ago