The boy I like is so confusing! he tells people he doesn't like me and says I'm "ok" but for months and months he's always trying to get my attention and is always staring at me! He used to flirt with my friends in the beginning when things weren't as serious but now its like he doesn't even acknowledge them to stare at me. He's talking to a girl with the same name as me, he seems like he likes her but he still tries to get my attention. One time he even touched my hair! In Halloween he stoled my antennas and said "he'll make it up to me". I ignore him so much but he tries and tries. Whenever I start talking to him again like on AIM or something he starts to acknowledge again, a lot more than he used to. Each day seems like he's getting worse and won't stop leaving me alone! Or maybe its just that I like him so much his existence bothers me, and he really doesn't like me. I'm so confused! HE confuses me!
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When: 4 months ago
hmmm.this sounds like the guy I like. There's this male friend of mine who always tries to get my attention when we meet up but he hasn't asked me out and has never called or texted me, but when he sees me, he focuses all his attention on me, ignoring other girls around him and his friends, and acts like he really likes me. I think he either likes you but is too scared to tell you upfront, or he just doesn't like you in that way and is also too scared to tell you that, but likes you at least as a friend. I'm sorry I'm not much of a help as I'm confused as you are, but if you do let us all know how it goes. These types of guys are really strange and difficult to understand!
Whew! Are you tired?? I'm tired after reading that! I believe he likes knowing you're interested in him and if he ever gets the vibe you're losing interest he steps up his game.
I don't know if that means he really likes your what though. It doesn't seem like the typical vibe guys give when they're interested. How old is he?